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ልደታ ለማርያም


01-06-2016
ልደታ ለማርያም
በስመ አብ ወወልድ ወመንፈስ ቅዱስ አሐዱ አምላክ አሜን። 
ዮም ፍስሐ ኮነ በእንተ ልደታ ለማርያም
ምሳሌን ትንቢትን 

ልደት ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ከም ጋሻ ውሑድ ሃንደበት ዝመጸ ዘይኮነሲ፡ ኣብ ቅዱሳት መጻሕፍቲ ብፍላይ ድማ ኣብ ብሉያት ብትንቢትን ምሳሌን ብሰፊሑ ተጻሒፉ ዝርከብ እዩ። ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ገና ዓለም ከይተፈጥረ ኣብ ኅሊና ኣምላኽ ከምዝነበረት ኣብ መጻሕፍቲ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ብንጹር ዝተገልጸ እዩ። (መቅድመ ተኣምረ ማርያም) ስለዚ ብውድቀት ኣዳም ንዝኣተወ ሞት ክሥዕር፡ ባዕሉ እግዚአብሔር ሰብ ኮይኑ ንሰብ ከምዘድኅን ኣቐዲሙ ብብዙኅ ኅብረ ነገርን ምሳሌታትን ብኣፍ ነቢያት ኣቐዲሙ ገሊጽዎ ነይሩ። (ዕብ ፩፥፩) ሓደ ካብቲ ብዙኅ ድማ ብኸመይ መገዲ ሰብ ከምዝኸውን ክግለጽ ከሎ፡ ነዚ ዓቢ ዕላማ መኅደሪኡ ክትከውን ዝኃረያን ኣደን ድንግልን ከምዘላ ብግሁዶ ተዛሪቡ ነይሩ። (ኢሳ ፯፥፲፬) ሰማይን ምድርን ዝፈጠረ ጐይታ ተወልደ ክንብል ከሎና ካብ መን ዝብል ሕቶ ክስዕቦ ድማ ባህርያዊ እዩ። ነዚ ሕቶ ንምምላስ ከኣ ኣምላኽ ንክትወልድ ዝተኃርየት ኣደ ክብራን ቅድስንኣን ቅድሚ ምዝራብና፡ ናታ ናብዚ ምድሪ ምምጻእን ምውላዳን ኸመይ ከምዝነበረ ምግላጽ መሠረት ስለዝኾነ ብዛዕባ ልደታ ለማርያም ክንዛረብ ግድነት ይኸውን።

ኣዳም ብምኽሪ ዲያብሎስ ተታሊሉ፡ ሕገ እግዚአብሔር ተመሓላሊፉ ጸግኡ ምስ ተገፈን ሞት ምስ ተፈርዶን፡ ብዙኅ ተጣዕሰን ኣብ ቕድሚ ኣምላኽ ተነሰሐን ኣብዚኁ ከኣ ምሕረት ለመነን። ምምላስ ወዲ ሰብ ዝፈቱ ኣምላኽ ድማ ተስፋ ድኅነት ሃቦ። (ዘፍ ፫) ብተወሳኺ’ውን “ካብ ጓል ጓልካ ተወሊደ ከድኅነካ እየ” ብምባል ቃል ኣተወሉ። (መጽ ቀሌም ፤ ገላ ፬፥፭) ነዚ ናይ ተስፋ ቃል ሒዙ እዩ ድማ ኣዳም ካብ ገነት ዝወጸ። በዚ መሠረት ድማ እዩ ኣቦታት ብዛዕባ እዚ ተስፋ ብብዙኅ ምስላን ትንቢትን እግዚአብሔር ብዝገለጸሎም ኣስፊሖምን ኣምሊኦምን ኣብ ዘመነ ብሉይ ዝገልጹ ዝነበሩ። ሓዋርያት’ውን እዚ ተስፋ ካብ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ብዝተወልደ ክርስቶስ ኣምላኽና ከምዝተፈጸመ ኣርጊጾም ሰቢኾም ኣለዉ። (ቀዳማይ ዮሓ ፩፥፩-፫) ካብቶም እግዚአብሔር ዝገለጸሎም አበው ሊቃውንትውን ሓደ ዝኾነ ኣባ ሕርያቆስ ነዚ ከዘኻኽር ከሎ ኣብ ናይ ቅዳሴ ማርያም መጽሓፉ “አንቲ ውእቱ ተስፋሁ ለአዳም አመ ይሰደድ እም ገነት” ክብል ገለጺዎ ነበረ። 

ድንግል ማርያም ቅድሚ ዓለም ምፍጣሩ ኣብ ኅልና ኣምላኽ ዝነበረት ከም ምዃና መጠን ገና ከይተወልደት ከላ ትንቢት ተነጊሩላ እዩ። ምስ ተወልደትውን ኣደ ኣምላኽ እናተባህለት ከም እትነብር ቅዱሳት መጻሕፍቲ ዝምስክሩላ እዮም። ብዛዕባ ልደት ቅድስት ድንግል ዝተነግረ ትንቢት ነቢይ ኢሳይያስ ካብ እግዚአብሔር ብዝተዋህቦ ጸጋ ትንቢት “ትወጽእ በትር እምሥርወ እሴይ ወይዓርግ ጽጌ እምጕንዱ”( ካብቲ ክሩት ጕንዲ እሴይ ኸኣ ሓደ ጠጥዒ ክጭብጭብ እዩ። ሓደ ጨንፈር ከኣ ካብ ሱሩ ፍረ ክፈሪ እዩ)። (ኢሳ ፲፩፥፩) ኢሉ ተነቢዩ ነይሩ። እዚ ማለት በትሪ ወይ ጠጥዒ ዝተባህለት ወይ ብጠጥዒ ዝትመሰለት ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ክትከውን ከላ፡ ዕንባባ ወይ ፍረ ዝተባህለ ድማ ጐይታናን መድኃኒናን ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ እዩ። እዚ’ውን ኣምላኽ ኣብዚ ምድራዊ ዓለም መጺኡ ካብ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ካብ ሥጋኣ ሥጋ ካብ ነፍሳ’ውን ነፍሲ ነሢዑ ካብኣ ምውላዱ ዘመልክት ትንቢት እዩ። ቅዱስ ያሬድ ነዚ ትንቢት ኣብ መዝሙሩ ክትርጉሞ ከሎ “ይእቲ በትር አምሳለ ማርያም ቅድስት ይእቲ ወጽጌ ዘወጽአ እምኔሃ አምሳሉ ለወልድ” (እዚኣ በትሪ ናይ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ምሳሌ እያ። ካብኣ ዝወጸ እምበባ’ውን ናይ ወልድ ምሳሌ ) ኢሉ ኣሎ። 

“እግዚአብሔር ጐይታ ሠራዊት ዘርኢ እንተዘይሓድገልናስ ከም ሰዶም ምኾንና ንጎሞራ’ውን ምመሰልና” (ኢሳ ፩፥፱) “እግዚአብሔር ንጽዮን ኃረያ፤ መኅደሪኡ ኽትከውን ከኣ በሃገ። እዚኣ ንሓዋሩ መዕረፊተይ እያ። ብሂገያ እየ እሞ ኣብ’ዚኣ ክነብር እየ” ይብል (መዝ. ፻፴፪፥፲፫-፲፬) ዝብሉን ካልኦት ብቀጥታ ይኹን ብምስላ ዝተነግሩ ኣዝዮም ብዙኃት ትንቢታት ነዚ ዘመልክቱ እዮም። ስለዚ ድማ ኵሎም አበው ነቢያት ብሓፈሻ ደቂ ኣዳም ነዚ ተስፋ ክፍጸም ብሃንቀውታ ይጽበይዎ ከምዝነበሩ ዘመልክት እዩ። ብቀንዱ ኣቦ ኵላትና ዝኾነ ኣዳም፡ ድንግል ማርያም ካብ ኣብራኹ ከም እትኽፈልን ካብ ማኅፀን ሔዋን ከም እትውለድ ብምፍላጡ ድማ ንሔዋን “ሕይወተይ” ይብላ ነበረ። (ዘፍጥ ፫፥፳)። ካብ ኣዳም ዝጀመረ ትንቢትን ምሳሌን ከኣ ክሳብ ኣብርሃም ከምኡ እናበለ ናብ ሙሴን ዳዊትን ክሳብ ወለዳ ከምዝበጸሐ ድማ ቅዱሳት መጻሕፍቲ ብቡዙኅ ምሥጢር የረድኡና እዮም። 

ወትረ ድንግልን ንጽሕትን 
ካብ ዘርኢ ኣዳም ካብ ወገን እሴይ ክትመጽእ ዝጽበይዋ ዝነበሩ ኣደ ኣምላኽ፤ ምልክታ እንታይ ምዃኑ ባዕሉ እግዚአብሔር ብነቢያት ሓዲሩ ነጊርዎም ነበረ። እዚ ኸኣ ወትረ ድንግል ምዃናን፡ ንኣምላኽ’ውን ብድንግልና ጸኒሳ ብድንግልና ከምእተወልዶ ዘረድእ እዩ ዝነበረ። ስለዚ ተስፋ ኣበው ዝኾነት ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ንጐይታናን መድኃኒናን ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ቅድሚ ምጽናሳ፡ ኣብ ዝጸነሰትሉ እዋን፡ ድኅሪ ምጽናሳ፤ ቅድሚ ምውላዳ፡ ጊዜ ወሊድ፡ ድኅሪ ወሊድ ኵል ጊዜን ንዘለዓለምን ድንግል እያ። ብዛዕባ እዚ ድማ ቅዱሳት መጻሕፍቲ ብግሁድን ብምሳሌን ዝገለጽዎ እዩ። ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ብሥጋኣ ድንግል ብኅልናኣውን ድንግል እያ። ነቢይ ኢሳይያስ ብመንፈስ ቅዱስ ተመሪሑ ቅድሚ ልደተ ክርስቶስ ፮፻ ዓመታት ኣቐዲሙ “እግዚአብሔር ኣምላኽ ባዕሉ ምልክት ክህበኩም እዩ፡ እንሆ ድንግል ክትጸንስ ወዲ ኸኣ ክትወልድ እያ፤ ስሙውን አማኑኤል ክትሰምዮ እያ” ኢሉ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ብድንግልና ንመሲሕ ክርስቶስ ከምእትወልዶ ብግልጺ ኣቐሚጥዎ ነበረ። (ኢሳ ፯፥፲፬ ማቴ ፩፥፳፪-፳፫) 

ነቢይ እግዚአብሔር ሕዝቅኤል ኣብ ትንቢቱ ከምዝገለጾ “ድኅሪ’ዚ ናብ መንገዲ እታ ናብ ምብራቕ እትርኢ መስኮት ደገ መቕደስ መለሰኒ፤ ዕጽውቲ ኸኣ እያ። እግዚአብሔር ድማ በለኒ እዛ ደገ እዚኣ ዕጽውቲ ትኹን ኣይትከፈት። ሰብ’ውን ኣይእተዋ። እግዚአብሔር አምላኽ እስራኤል ኣትዩላ እዩ እሞ ስለዚ ብዕጽውታ ትንበር” ኢሉ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ዘለዓለማዊት ድንግል ምዃና ብትንቢትን ምሳሌን ጽሒፉ ንረኽቦ። ወልደ ዳዊት ሰሎሞን’ውን “ኣቲ ኃብተይ መርዓተይ እተሸጎረ ገነት ዕጽዊ ዔላ ሕቱም ዓይኒ ማይ ኢኺ” ክብል ብዛዕባ ዘለዓለማዊ ድንግልና ኣዴና ጽሒፉ ንረኽቦ” (መኃ ፬፥፲፪) 

ኣዴና ብኸመይን ካብ መንን ተወልደት፧ 
ወለዲ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ኢያቄምን ሃናን ይበሃሉ። ኣቡኣ ኢያቄም ካብ ነገደ ይሁዳ ክኸውን ከሎ ኣዴኣ ሃና ድማ ካብ ነገደ ኣሮን እያ። ክልቲኦም ድማ ኣኽበርቲ ሕገ እግዚአብሔርን ርኅሩኃትን ለጋሳትን ነበሩ። ካብቲ ጽቡቕ ግብሮም ድማ ንዝጠመየ ዝጸመዐን ምብላዕን ምስታይን ንዝዓረቐ ድማ ምኽዳን ይፈትዉ ነበሩ። 

ኣቡኣ ኢያቄምን ኣዴና ሃናን ናይ መውስቦ ሕጊ ብዝፈቐዶ ምስ ተመርዓዉ ምኽነት (መኻን ምዃን) ኣጓኒፍዎም ነበረ። በዚ ምኽንያት እዚ ድማ ዝብሃግዎ ውላድ ስኢኖም፡ መሪር ብኽያት ይበኽዩ ከምዝነበሩ ታሪኽ ሕይወቶም ይገልጽ። ኣብዛ ምድራዊት ዓለም፡ ሰብ ዓቢ ክብርን ሃብትን ዝውንን እኳ እንተኾነ ብሕገ ሰብሳብ ተጸሚዱ ኣብ ዝነብረሉ ንስሙ ዘጸውዕ መተካእታ ዘርኢ እንተዘይብሉ ሓጐሱ ፍጹም ከምዘይከውን ዝተፈልጠ እዩ። እዚውን ከይኣክል፡ ኢያቄምን ሃናን ንድንግል ማርያም ቅድሚ ምውላዶም ዝረኸብዎ ዝነበሩ ዝተፈላለየ ፈተና ተጻዊሮም ናብ ሓጐስን ደስታን ቅድሚ ምብጽሖም በቲ ኣብቲ ጊዜ እቲ ዝነበረ ሕዝቢ ዝተናዕቑ ነበሩ። ምኽንያቱ በቲ ንሳቶም ዝነበርዎ ዘመን፡ መኻናት ሰባት ወይ ዘይውለዱ ሰብ ሓዳር እንተደኣ ኮይኖም ካልእ ይትረፍሲ ንቤተ እግዚአብሔር ኢሎም እንስሳታት፥ ወርቂ፥ ብሩር ንመባእ ኢሎም እንተምጽኡ እኳ ዝቕበሎም ኣይነበረን። በቲ ሽዑ ዝነበረ ሕዝቢ ከም ፉንፉናት ይረኣዩ ነበሩ። ምኽንያቱ ድማ እግዚአብሔር እንተዝፈትወኩም ውላድ ምሃበኩም ነይሩ፤ ግን ብእግዚአብሔር ዝተጸላእኩም ስለ ዝኾንኩም ንሕናውን ክንፈትወኩምን መባእኩም ክንቕበለኩም ኣይግባኣናን ይብልዎም ነበሩ። 

ስለዚ ድማ ንግሆን ምሸትን ተስፋ ብዘይ ምቍራጽ ናብ ቤተ እግዚአብሔር ብምኻድ ኵሉ ጊዜ ይጽልዩ ከምዝነበሩ ታሪኽ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ይነግረና። ብኸምዚ ብዙኅ ዓመታት ምስ ኣኅለፉ፡ ኣሚኖም ንዝቐርብዎ እግዚአብሔር ቐረባኦም እዩ እሞ፡ ጸሎቶም ሰሚዑ ልመናኦም ተቐቢሉ ሓሳብ ልቦም ከምዘሥምረሎም ብምእማን ኣብ መወዳእታ ተመባጽዑ። ኢያቄምን ሃናን ክመበጻዑ ከለዉ ውላድ ክህቦም ጥራይ ዘይኮነስ፤ ነቲ ዝተዋህቦም ውላድ ኣብ ኣምልኮተ እግዚአብሔር ጸኒዑ ዝነብር ክኸውን፡ ሰብ ዘየቐይም ንፈጣሪኡ እውን ዘየሐዝን ክኾነሎም ለመኑ። እንተወሊድና ሓሪስና ወሪድካን ደይብካን ሓግዘና ኣይንብሎን፡ እንታይ ደኣ ቤተ እግዚአብሔር ከምዘገልግል ክንገብር ኢና። ከምኡ እውን ጓል እንተደኣ ወሊድና ድማ ማይ ወሪድኪ ኣስትይና፡ ዕንጨይቲ ኣሪኺ ሓግዝና ኣይንብላን፡ እንታይ ደኣ ንቤተ እግዚአብሔር ዘድልዩ ነገራት እናሰርሐት ክትነብር ንቤተ እግዚአብሔር ክንህባ ኢና ኢሎም ተመባጽዑ። ኣብ መንገዲ እናተመልሱ ከለዉ’ውን ረጋቢት ምስ ጨቓዊቶም ክጻወቱ ርእዮም፡ ኦ እግዚአብሔር ኣምላኽ ነዚኦም ረጋቢት ክባዝኁን ክፋረዩን ዝፈቐድካ ንስኻ ኢኻ። ንዓና ንባሮትካ ካብዚኦም ረጋቢት ስለምንታይ ኣትሓትካና ኢሎም ኣምሪሮም ለመንዎ። እዞም ክልተ ናይ እግዚአብሔር ሰባት ከምቲ መብጽዕኦም ድማ ተሰማሚዖም ናብ ገዝኦም ምስ ከዱ ሓደ ዘገርም ራእይ ረኣዩ። ንሱ ድማ ሃና ዝረኣየቶ ራእይ ክትነግሮ ከላ “ምዕሩግ ግምጃ ክትዕጠቕ፡ መቖምያኻ ድማ ለምሊማን ዓምቢባን ፈርያን፤ ንፍሪኣ ድማ ኣብ ዓለም ዘሎ ፍጡር ክበልዖ ከሎ ረአኹ” በለቶ። ኢያቄም ነዚ ምስ ሰመዐ ብወገኑ ንሃና ከምዚ ክብል ነገራ። “ሓንቲ ጻዕዳ ርግቢት ሸውዓተ ሰማያት ሰንጢቓ ወሪዳ ኣብ ርእስኺ ኮፍ ክትብል ርእየ” በላ። እግዚአብሔር ብረድኤቱ ስለዝረኣዮም ድማ ብ፯ ነሓሰ ኣዴና ቅድስት ማርያም ተጸንሰት። ኣብ ማኅፀን ኣዴኣ ከላ ዘደንቕ ተኣምራት ብምግባር ብዙኃት ድውያት ኣንጺሃን ኣድኂናን ተወልደት። 

                                                                                                                           

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“ንጽሕና ድንግል ማርያም ንምቅዋም ብዘመናውያን መናፍቓን ዝቐረቡ 10 ነጥብታትን መልስታቶምን”
በስመአብ ወወልደ ወመንፈስ ቅዱስ ፩ዱ አምላክ አሜን!!!

“ንጽሕና ድንግል ማርያም ንምቅዋም ብዘመናውያን መናፍቓን ዝቐረቡ 10 ነጥብታትን መልስታቶምን” (ብመጋቤ ሐዲስ ሮዳስ ታደሰ ካብ ዝተዳለወት መጽሓፍ ዝተረኽበ) ትርጉም ብሓውና Weldeab Gebremeskel
1ይ ተቓውሞ “ድንግል ማርያም ኣዳማዊ ኃጢአት የብላን ዝብል ትምህርቲ ቀዳሞት ሊቃውንቲ ናይ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ኣይመሃርዎን” ይብሉ።

መልሲ፤ ነዚ ዘሕፍር ቃል እዚ ዝዛረቡ ወገናት ታሪኽ ቅድስቲ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ፈጺሞም ኣይፈልጡን እዮም ማለት እዩ፡ ወይ ድማ ሊቃውንቲ ቤተ ክርስቲያን እንታይ ከም ዝመሃሩ ኣየንበቡን እምበር ቀዳሞት ሊቃውንቲ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ካብ 2ይ ክፍለ ዘመን ክሳብ እዚ ሒዝናዮ ዘለና 21 ክፍለ ዘመን ንጽሕናኣ ካብ ምንጋር ዓዲ ኣይወዓሉን። ከምቲ ቅዱስ ዳዊት ኵሉ ሰብ ኣዴና ጽዮን ክብል እዩ ዝበሎ ንሳ ውን ካብ ሕጂ ጀሚሮም ኵሎም ወለዶ ብጽእቲ ክብሉኒ እዮም ከም ዝበለት “ብጽእቲ ንጽሕቲ ቅድስቲ ክብርቲ ልዕልቲ እንዳ ተባህለት ጸኒሐ ኣላን በዚ ምስጋናኣ እዚ ድማ ክትቅጽል እያ። ንሕጂ እምበኣር ቀዳሞት ሊቃውንቲ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ብዛዕባ ንጽሕናኣ እንታይ ኢሎም ከም ዝመሃሩ ብውሑዱ ንከታተል።
ቅዱስ ኣትናቴዎስ
1.(,,,,,,ንጹሕን ዘይተተንከየን ድንግል,,,,, ኦ ዝኸበርክን ዝተደነቕክን ድንግል ንስኺ ብሓቂ ካብ ማንም ናይ ካልእ ዕብይት ዝበለጽኪ ኢኺ። ናይ እግዚኣብሔር መሕደሪ ምስ ዝኾንኪ ምሳኺ ብማዕርነት ዝወዳደር መን ኢዩ? ኦ ድንግል ካብ ኩሉ ፍጥረታት ንዓኺ ምስ መን ክንጻጽረኪ ኢየ? ኦ ብቃል ኪዳን ልዕሊ ኩሉ ዝኾንኪ ኣብ ክንዲ ወርቂ ንጽሕና ዝተጎናጸፍኪ ንስኺ ሓቅኛ መና ዝሓዘት ናይ ወርቂ መሶብ ኢኺ እዚ ውን መለኮት ዝተውሐዶ ስጋ ኢዩ) ቅዱስ ኣትናቴዎስ 295-375 ዓ።ም
ቅዱስ ቴዎዶጦስ

2. ኦ ሰላምታ ዝግበኣኪ ምልእተ ጸጋ ጎይታ ምሳኺ ኢዩ ንስኺ ዝተባረኽኪ ኢኺ ካብ ኩለን ኣንስቲ ዝጸብቕኪ ኣዚኺ ዝተቐደስኪ ኢኺ እግዚኣብሔር ምሳኪ ኢዩ። ኦ ካብ ኩሉ ንላዕሊ ቅድስቲ ዝኾንኪ ክብርቲ ኦጎይታ ምሳኺ ዝኾነ ውዳሴ ዝተገብኣኪ ተወዳዳሪ የብልክን፡ ኦ ካብ ምጎስ ንላዕሊ ዝኾንኪ ኦ ኩሉ ዝመለኣልኪ እግዚኣብሔር ዘኽበረኪ ምስጋና ይግበኣኪ። ናይ እግዚኣብሔር መሕደሪ መለኮት ዝሓለወኪ ዝተንከባኸበኪ ሃብቲ ኢኺ፡ ኣባኺ ኣብውሽጢ ሃጢኣት ምጽናስ ወይ ኣብ ውሽጢ ሃጢኣት ምውላድ ብፍጹም ኣይእውጅን ኢየ። ኣብ ክንዲ`ዚ ናይ ሔዋን ሓዘን ንኽብቅዕ ዝገበሮ ደስታ ኣምጺአ ኣለኹ እምበር። ኣባኺ ናይ መከራ ጽንስን ወይ ሕማመ ወሊድ ኣይእውጅን,,,,,, ንጽሕት ድንግል ነውሪ ዘይብላ ብዘይነቐፋ ዝኾነት ማንም ዘይተንከፋ ሕጸጽ ዘይርከባ ብስጋን ብነፍስን ቅድስት ኣብ ማእከል እሾኽ ከም ዝበቖለት ዕምበባ ኢያ። ናይ ሔዋን ክፋኣት ዘይትፈልጥ ናይ ደቂ ኣንስትዮ ጠባይ ዘይተራእያ ቅድሚ ምጽናሳ ንፈጣሪ ዝተፈልየት ናይ ቤተ መቕደሰ ጋሻ ናየ ሕጊ ደቀ መዝሙር ዝኾነት መንፈስ ቅዱስ ዝተቐብአት ናይ መለኮት ጸጋ ከም ክዳን ዝለበሰት` ቅዱስ ቴዎዶጦስ (303ዓም)
(ቀዱሰ ጼጲፋንዮስ)

3. ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ኣብ ቅድሚ ሰብን እግዚኣብሔርን ብሓቂ ክብርቲ ኢያ፡ ነቲ ሰማይን ምድርን ክስከምዎ ዘይካሉ ንዓኡ ዝተሸከመት ናታ ዕቤታ ስለ ምንታይ ዘይንእውጅ?,,,,,ንጎይታ ዘኽብር ኩሉ ንጎየታ ዝተቐደሰ መሕደሪኡ የኽብር። መሕደሪኡ ዘየኽብር (ዝቃልል) ጎይታኡ የቃልል (ኣየኽብርን) ንሳ ድንግል ዝተቐደሰ መሕደሪኡ ኢያ። (ቀዱሰ ጼጲፋንዮስ 310-403)
(ቅዱስ ኤፍሬም 306-373)
4. ናይ ማርያም ሰውነት ኣብ ልዕሊ ምድሪ መቕደስ ኢዩ። ኣብኡ ብሃጢኣት ብሞት ኣብ ክንዲ ናይ ምድሪ መርገም ናይ በረኽት ርዘኢ ዝተዘርኣላ ናይ እግዚኣብሔር መልእኽተኛ ብሰላምታኡ ነዚ ዘርኢ ክዘርእ እንከሎ ናይ ኤልሳቤጥ ሰላምታ ነዚ ኣረጋገጸ,,,,, ንስኻን ኣዴኻን ጥራይ ብማንም ዓይነት ነገር ንጹሓት ኢኹም። ኦ ጎይታ ኣባኻ ምንም (ንቅዕ) የለን፡ ኣብ ውሽጢ ኣዴኻ ውን ማንም ምልክት የለን (ቅዱስ ኤፍሬም 306-373)
(ቅዱስ ጎርጎርዮስ ዘእንዚናዙ)

5 (ቅዱስ ኣምብሮስ) 330-397)

6. ብሓቂ ንሳ ጥራይ ማንም ክረኽቦ ዘይከኣለ ጸጋ ስለ ዝረኸበት ምልእተ ጸጋ ትበሃል። ማርያም ድንግል ዘይረኸሰት ጥራይ ዘይኮነት ክብራ ፈጺሙ ዘይጠሓስን ካብ ማንም ዓይነት ሃጢኣት ዝነጽሐትን ኢያ,,,,,,ካብ ኣደ ኣምላኽ ዝበልጽ እንታይ ዓቢ ነገር ኣሎ? በቲ ክቡረ ባዕሉ ካብ ምምራጽ ዝዓቢ እነታይ ዓቢ ነገር ክህሉ ይኽእል? ናብ ናይ ማንም ሰብ ኣካል ከይበጽሐት ካብ ዝጸነሰት ካብኣ ንላኦሊ እንታይ ንጽሕና ኣሎ? (ቅዱስ ኣምብሮስ) 330-397)

(ቅዱስ ጂሮም 347-420)

7. (ቅዱስ ቄርሎስ 376-444)

8. ሰላምታ ዝተገባኪ ማርያም ናይ ኣምላኽ ኣደ ድንግልን ኣደን ብርሃን ዝተሰከምኪ ዘይተበዝበዘት ንዋይ (ልሕኲት) ሰላምታ ዝተገባኪ ማርያም ካብ ዓለም ምሉእ ኣዚኺ ከብርቲ ፍጥረት ንስኺ ኢኺ፤ ሰላምታ ዝግባኪ ማርያም ንጽህት ርግቢት ዘይትውዳእ ዘይትጥፍእ ፋና ካባኺ ወን ናይ ጸሓይ ጸደቂ ዝተወለደ,,,,,እነሆ ብፍጹም መንፈሳዊ ቅንኣት ብኣደ ኣምላኽ ድንግልን ኣደን ብዝኾነት ማርያም ተጋቢዞም ዝተኣክቡ ናይ ቅዱሳን ጉባኤ እርኢ ኣለኹ,,,,, ንሕና ውን ሰላም ንብለኪ፡ኦ ኣደ እግዚኣብሔር ዝኾንኪ ማርያም ዝተኸበርኪ ናይ መልእ ዓለም ቅርሲ ዝዘይትጠፍኢ ፋና ናይ ድንግልና ዘውዲ ናይታ ቅንዕቲ እምነት (ኦርቶዶክስ)ምርኩስ በትሪ ዘይትፈርሲ መቐደስ ነቲ ማንም ክሕዞ ክሽከሞ ዘይክእል ንዕኡ ዝሓዝኪ ኢኺ (ቅዱስ ቄርሎስ 376-444)

ቅዱስ ጋረዳ ኣባ ጊዮርጊስ ዝጋስጫ 1336-1417

9. < አኮ ብዙሃን መናፍስት ዘይቀድሃ ብዙሃት ሃብታተ እግዚኣብሔረ ወመክፈልተ ስናያት ኣላ እም ኣሕዱ መንፈስ ውእቱኬ ጰራቀሊጦስ ዝዓቀባ ለድንግል እም ከርሰ እማ ከመ ኢትጌጊ ለዓለም ኣንጽሓ ከመ ኢትርሳሕ ቀደሳ ከሙ ኢትርኮስ ወረሰያ ታቦተ ለወልድ ዋሕድ አብ ሰምራ ወልድ ተሰገው እምኔሃ ወመንፈስ ቅዱስ ከለላ ፣ብዙሓት ዝኾኑ ናይ እግዚኣብሔር ሃብተታትን ጽቡቓት ትዕድልትታትን ካብ ሓደ መንፈስ ቅዱስ ድኣ እምበር ካብ ብዙሓት ምናፍስቲ ኣይኮኑን ዝቕድሑ ኣይኮኑነ፣ ንሱ ውን ንዘልዓለም ንኽይትብድል ካብ ማህጸን ኣዲኣ ጅሚሩ ድንግል ማርያም ዝዓቀባ ጴራቅሊጦስ ኢዩ። ንኸይትረስሕ ኣንጽሓ ንኸይትረክስ ቀደሳ ንሓደ ወዲ እግዚኣብሔር መሕደሪ ገበራ ኣብ ፈተዋ ወልድ ክብኣ ሰጋን ነፍስን ወሰደ መንፈስ ቅዱስ ጋረዳ ኣባ ጊዮርጊስ ዝጋስጫ 1336-1417

ቅዱስ ያዕቆብ ዘሥሩግ

10. ናይ መንፈስ ቅዱስ እንዚራ ዝተባህለ ቅዱስ ያዕቆብ ዘሥሩግ ውን ካብ መርገመ ሥጋ ካብ መርገመ ነፍሲ ዝተፈልየት ምልእተ ጸጋ ከም ዝኾነት ክትንትን እንከሎ (………….እዚ ኣብኣ ዝተፈጸመ ነገራት ብርተዐ ስለ ዝሃበኒ ብዛዕባ እቲ ዘይሓልፍ ጽባቔኣ (ውህበታ) ነዞም ነገራት እዚኦም ክዛረብ ክኢለ ኣለኹ። ንሳ ንወዲ እግዚኣብሔር ኣዲኡ ብምዃና ምኽንያት ኣብዚ ምድሪ ፍጽምቲ ዝኾነት እንኮ ሰበይቲ ንሳ ከም ዘዝኾነት ርእየ ብምልኣት ኣሚነ ኣለኹ። ነቲ ጽቡቕ ካብ ሕማቕ ፈልያ ካብ ዝፈለጠትሉ ጊዜ ጀሚሩ ንሳ ብንጽሕና ልብን ብሓቀኛ ሓሳብን ጸኒዓ ቆይማ ኢያ። ኣብ ውሽጢ ሕጊ ካብ ዘሎ ጽድቂ ውን ገጻ ኣይመለሰትን። ምድራውን ሥጋውን ነገር ብምድላይ (ብምምናይ) ውን ኣይተሰናኸለትን። ካብ ሕጻንነታ ጀሚሮም ናይ ቅድስና ባህርያት ኣብ ውሽጣ ነበሩ። እናዓበየት ኣብ ዝኸደትሉ ውን ነዚኣቶም ብጥንቃቐ ኣጥቢቓ ኣብዝሓቶም። ኣምላኻ ኵሉ ጊዜ ኣብ ቅድሚ ኣዒንታ ነበረ። ብኡኡ ንኽበርሃላን ብኡኡ ደስ ንኽብላን ኣዒንታ ካብኡ ኣይኣለየትን። ንሱ ውን ንጽሕናኣን ናይ ነፍሳ ንጽሕናን ስለ ዝረኣየ ዋላ ሓንቲ ክፍኣት (ክፉእ ነገር) ስለ ዘይነበራ ኣብኣ ንኽሓድር ፈተወ። ከምኣ ዝኣመሰለት ሓንቲ ሰበይቲ ተራእያ ስለ ዘይትፈልጥ ልዕሊ ኵሉ ስራሕ ዝኾነ ዓብን ኣደናቕን ዝኾነ ስራሕ ኣብኣ ተስርሐ። ካብ ማእከል ኵለን ኣንስቲ ሓንቲ ጐርዞ ተደልየት፡ ካብ ኵለን ንላዕሊ ዝጸበቐት ብምዃና ተመረጸት፡ ቅዱስ ኣብ ንወዱ መሕደሪ እትኸውን ከዳልወሉ ደለየ፡ እንተኾነ ግን ንሱ ስለ ዝመረጻ ጥራይ ኣዲኡ ንኽትከውን ኣይፈቐደን፡ ብውሽጣን ብዙርያኣን ብዝተሰወረ (ውበት) ጽባቐ ዝተመልአት ጐርዞ ከምኡ ውን ኣብኣ ንዝተኸሰቲ ምሥጢራት ንኽትርኢ ዘኽኣላ ናይ ልቢ ንጽሕና ዝነበራ ሓንቲ ጐርዞ ፈትያን ፈቒዳን ጽባቐ ክህልዋ እንከሎ እዚ ኢዩ ሓቀኛ መልክዕ፡ ፍጹምነታ ብፍቓዳ ኮይኑ ናይ ሓደ ካብ እግዚአብሔር ዝኾነ ነገር ጽባቐ ማዕረ ክንደይ ዝኣክል ዓቢ እኳ እንተኾነ፡ ነጻ ዝኾነ ውልቃዊ ፍቓድ ኣብ ውሽጡ እንተዘየለ ምስጉንነት የብሉን። ፀሓይ ጽብቕቲ እኳ እንተኾነት ዝርእይዋ ግን ኣየመስግንዋን ኢዮም፡ ምኽንያቱ ብርሃን እትህብ ፈትያ ፈቒዳ ከም ዘይኮነት ስለ ዝፍለት ኢዩ። ብገዛእ ፍቓዱን ብድሌቱን ጽቡቕ ዝኮነን ጽባቐ ዘለዎን ኵሉ ብሓቂ ጽቡቕ ክሳብ ዝኾነ ካብዚ ዝተላዕለ ጥራኢ ንሱ ብሓቂ ምስጉን ኢዩ። እግዚአብሔር ዝፈትዎ ጽባቐ ብገዛእ ፍቓድካ ዝኾነ ጽባቐ ኢዩ…………………እነሆ ታሪኻ እንዛረበላ ዘለና ድንግል ሠናይ ፍቓድ ስለ ዝነበራ ደስ እተብልን ዘዝተመርጸትን ኮነት። ሰብ ካብ ዝኾነት ጓል ኣንስተይቲ ንሱ ሰብ ኮይኑ መጽአ፡ ደስ ተብል ስለ ዝነበረት ካብኣ ንኽመጽእ ንዓኣ መረጻ፡ ናቱ ግርማ ካብ ኵሎም አእቶም ካብ ሰብ ዝውለዱ ዓቢ ስለ ዝኾነ ኣዲኡ ናኢ ዝኾነት ናይ ማርያም መልክዕ ኣዝዩ ዝተወደሰ ይኸውን። ደስ እተብልን ንዕኡ ምርጽቲ ዝኾነት ካብ ትሕትናኣ ካብ ንጽሕናኣ ካብ ቅንዕናኣን ሠናይ ፍቓዳን ዝተላዕለ ኢዩ። ካብኣ ንላእሊ ደስ ዘበለቶ ካልእ እንተትኸውን ኔራ ንካልእ ምመረጸ ኔሩ፡ ንሱ ቅኑዕ ፈራድን ትኽክለኛን ስለ ዝኾነ ኣምላክ ግለ ሰባት ፈልዩ ኣየኽብርን። (2ዜና 19፡7 ግ’ሐ 10፡34) ሓንቲ እንከን ወይ ጕድለት ኣብ ነፍሳ ተረኺቡ እንተ ዘዝኸውን ኔሩ ካልእ እንከን ዘይብል ኣደ ንዕኡ ምደለየ ኔሩ። እዚ ካብ ኵሉ መልክዕ ዝዓበየ መልክዕ ብሠናይ ፍቓዳ ጥራይ ዝረኸበቶ ኢዩ። ካብዚ ዝተላዕለ ኵሉ ግርምትን ክብርትን ብዝኾነት ብኣኣ ክድነቕ ናይ ግድን ኢዩ። ኣምላኽ ውን ኣዲኡ ንኽትከውን ንኽመርጻ ዝገበሮ ንሳ ኣዝያ ደስ እተብል ስለ ዝነበረት ኢዩ። ንተፈጥሮ ብዝተዋህቦ መልክዕ መጠን ልክዕ ንሳ ደስ እተብል ነበረት፡ እንተ ኾነ ግን ነዚ ደረጃ ዝበቕዐት ብፍቓዳ ጥራይ ኣይነበረን፡ ንሳ ንሰብ ዝከኣሎ ዘበለ ጻዕሪ ገበረት ኣምላኽ ካብኣ ምውጽኡ ምውላዱ ግን ናታ ሥራሕ ኣነበረን፡ ንሳ ብቕንዕናኣ ናብ ኣምላኽ ብዝተጸግዐት መጠን፡ ካብ ድሌት ነፍሳ ዝተላዕላ ንሱ ድማ ብምሕረቱ ናብኣ ተጸግዐ፡ እንተኾነ ግን ኣምላኽ ሥጋ ለቢሱ ካብኣ ምውላዱ እዚ ናቱ ጸጋ (ምሕረት) ኢዩ። ከምዚ ምሕረቱ ንዝበዝሐ ምስጋና ይብጽሓዮ። ናይ እመቤትና ማርያም መልክዕ ካብ መጠን ዝሓለፈ ኢዩ። ምኽንያቱ ካብኣ እትበልጽ ኣብ ኵሉ ዓለም ኣይተረኽበትን። ብድሕሪ’ዚ ንዕኡ ዝግባእ ንኣምላኽ ንሃብ ጸጋኡ ብዘይ መጠን ኣብ ፍጥረታቱ ስለ ዘዝነበ ኵሎም ዘመናት ንዕኡ ዘይበቕዑ ብሉየ መዋዕል ዝኾነ ወልድ ንዕኡ ንፍለጦ፡ ካብ ማእከል ኵለን ኣንስቲ እንከን ዘይተረኽበላ እመቤትና ማርያም ዘንጽሀ(ያበጃትን) ንረድኣዮ።

ቀዳሞት መናፍቓን ኣብ ንጽሕና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ዝነበሮም ዘደንቕ እምነት
እቲ ኣብዛ ምድሪ ብዙሕ ናይ ስሕተት ትምህርቲ ዝዘርአ ኣብ 1483-1546 ዝነበረ ናይ ፕሮቴስታንት መሥራቲ ማርቲን ሉተር ውን ድንግል ማርያም ኣቐዲማ ካብ ጥንተ ኣብሶ ነጻ ምዃና ኣብ ስብከቱ ኣብ መጽሓፉ ክገልጽ እንከሎ “It is a sweet and pious belief that the infusion of mary’s soul was effected without original sin………(ናይ ማርያም ነፍሲ ምስ ሥጋኣ ኣብ ዝተወዋሃደትሉ ጊዜ ካብ ኃጢኣት ፍጹም ዝነጽሐትን ጥንተ ኣብሶ ዘይብላ ብጸጋ እግዚኣብሔር ዘጋየጸት ንጽሕት ነፍሲ ኮይና ኢያ ምስ አግዚአብሔር ዝተወሃሃደት፡ ንጽሕት ነፍሲ ተቐቢላ ኔራ በዚ ውን ድንግል ምንባር ካብ ዝጀመረትሉ ጊዜ (ከፅንሰታ) ጀሚራ ካብ ኵሉ ኃጢኣት ዝነጽሐት ኮነት ነዚ ምእማን ምቁር ኢዩ……ማርያም ናይ ብሓቂ ኣዲኡ ኢያ ንሱ ውን ናይ ብሓቂ ወዳ ኢዩ፡ ስለ’ዚ ሰብነታ ንባህሪኡ ዝሰማማዕ ናይ ኣደነት ተራኡ ተዋጺኡ ኢዩ። እንተ ኾነ ግን ክትወልዶ እንከላ ብዘይ ኃጢኣት ስለ ዝኾነ ክትወልዶ እንከላ ውን ብዘይ ጻዕሪ ብዘይ ሕማም ብዘይ ምፍታሕ ማህጸን ኢዩ። እግዚአብሔር “ብጻዕርን ቅልውላውን” ክትወልዲ ኢኺ ኢሉ ዝተዛረቦ መርገም ንዓኣ ኣይተንከፋን (ዘፍ 3፡17) ብምባል ብግልጺ ምሂሩን ጽሒፉን ኔሩ (Sermon on the Day of the Conception of Mary, Mother of God, 1527)፡፡

ብተወሳኺ ውን (ብ1921-1996 ዓ.ም) ዝነበረ ናይ ካልቪኒስት እምነት ኣብ ዓለም ብምስፍሕፋሕ ዝፍለጥ ናይ ካቶሊክ ካህን ዝነበረ ማክስ ቱሪያን (Max Thurian) ኣብ መጽሓፉ ልክዕ ከም ሉተር ንሱ ውን ነቲ ፈጺሙ ክክሓድ ዘይክእል ናይ ድንግል ማርያም ንጽሕና ክኽሕድ ኣይፈተነን፡ ነዚ ክገልጽ እንከሎ ““As far as [Mary] is concerned, according to the Gospel,…” ( ብዛዕባ ማርያም ከም ናይ ወንጌል ኣዘራርባ ንሳ ናይ ጸጋ ምልኣቱ መርኣይት ኢያ። ከምኡ ውን ኣዲኡ ኣቐዲማ ዝተሓሰበት (ዕድፍን) ርስሓት ዘይትፈልጥ ናይ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ውን ምሳሌ ጌሩ መሪጽዋ ኢዩ፡ እዚ ሓሳብ ብዛዕባ ማርያም ክንብል እንኽእሎ እንኽእል ንዅሉ ዝገልጸልና ኢዩ፡ እዚ ማለት ብሓደ ወገን ማርያም ኃጢኣት ክም ዘለዋ ንምዝራብ ዝደፋፈሩን ብኻልእ መንገዲ ድማ ንሳ ከብ ናይ ደቂ ሰብ ባሕርይ ፍጹም ዝተፈልየት ከም ዝኾነት ዝዛረቡን ወሲኽካ ኣፎም ዘዕጹ ኢዩ። ጸጋ ዝተመልአት ጓል ጽዮን ሥጋ ናይ ዝተወሓደ ኣምላኽ ኣደ ናይ ኣዴና ቤተ ክርስቲያን ምሳሌ ዝኾነት ድንግል ማርያም ቅድሰት ኢያ። ኢሉ ምሂሩ ኢዩ ((Mary, Mother of All Christians, page 204 [endnote], and page v 24, 25, from the chapter "Full of Grace")፡፡
ኡልሪች እዝቪንጊሊም ድማ ንጽሕቲ ምዃና ኣብ ዝጸሓፎ መጽሓፍ ክገልጽ እንከሎ “He who was about to remove our sins but not to make all men holy” (ኵሉ ሰብ ቅዱስ ንምግባር ዘይኮነ ኃጢኣትና ንኸወግደልና ዘለዎ ንሱ ባዕሉ ቅዱስ ክኸውን ኣለዎ፡ ስለ’ዚ እግዚአብሔር ነዲኡ ቀደሳ ምኽንያቱ ቅዱስ ውላድ ከምኡ ቅድስት ዝኾነት ኣደ ክትህልዎ ስለ ዝግባእ። ኵሉ ጊዜ ድንግል ዝኾነት ናይ ድኅነትና ኣደ ማርያም ብዝምልከት ክብሪ ዘኽልእ (የሚያጎድፍ) ዘርስሕ ወይ ክፍኣት ዝመልኦ ሓሳብ ሃሲበ ይኹን ብወግዒ ተዛሪበ ኣይፈልጥን ኢየ፡ ሕጂ ውን ኣይሓስብን ኢየ እዚ ተጠራጠርትን ዕሙቕ ዘዝበለ ፍልጠት ዘይብሎም ክርስቲያን ብዛዕባ ኣደ ኣምላኽ ብዝምልከት ዘለኒ ንጹር መርገጺ ንምርኣይ ብቑዕ ከም ዝኾነ ተስፋ ይገብር፡ ብመሠረት ቅዱስ ወንጌል ብምሉእ ልበይ እዚኣ ንጽሕት ድንግል ወዲ ኣምላኽ ከም ዝወለደትልናን ብልደት ይኹን ብድሕሪኡ ንዘልዓለም ንጽሕትን ዘይረኸሰትን ከም ዝኾነት እኣምን ኢየ) ብምባል ድንግልናኣን ንጽሕናኣን ብሰፊሑ ገሊጹ ነበረ።
ኣብ 16 ክፍለ ዘመን ዘዝነበሩ ሪፎረመርስ (ፕሮቴስታንት) ንባዕሎም ቅድስት ድንግል ማርአም ካብ ጥንተ ኣብሶ ንጽሕት ምዃና ገሊጾም ኔሮም። (ብ1504-1575) ናይ ዝዊንግሊ ተኸታሊ ዝነበረ ሄንሪች ቡሊንገር ብዛዕባ’ዚ ክገልጽ እንከሎ “What pre-eminence in the eyes of God the Virgin Mary…” (ምስ ካልኦት ቅዱሳን ንምንጽጻር እትኸብድን ኣዝአ ልዕሊ ኵሎም ክትከውን ዝግበኣን ናይ ድንግል ማርያም ንጽሕናኣ እምነታ ቅድስናኣ ካብ ጕድፍ (ርስሐት) ዝነጽሀት ምዃናን ጽቡቐ ጠባያን ኣብ ቅድሚ እግዚአብሔር ዓቢ ኢዩ……ካብ ልደታ ጀሚራ ንጽሕት ዝነበረት ናይ ንጽሕት ቡራኬ ዝተቐበለት… ኣደ ኣምላኽ ናይ መንፈስ ቅዱስ መቕደስ ኣካላ ንጹሕን ኃጢአት ኣልባ ዝኾነ ናኢ ድንግል ማርያም ዝተቐደሰ ሰብነታ ብመላእኽቲ ናብ ሰማይ ከም ዝዓረገ ንኣምን ኢና) ብምባል ገሊጹ ኔሩ።(Heinrich Bullinger, cited in Thurian, page 89, 197, 198)፡፡
ኣብ ሃገረ ፈረንሳ እምነቱ ካብ ዘስፋሕፍሑ ሰባት ኣዝዩ ዝተፈልጠ ካብ 1595-1669 ዓ.ም ዝነበረ ቻርለስ ድሬሊንኮት ውን “We do not simply believe that God…” (እግዚአብሔር ንድንግል ማርያም ካብ ኣቦታትን ካብ ነብያትን ንለዕሊ ከም ዝመረጻን ከም ዝባረኻን ጥራይ ዘይኮነ ካብ ሱራፌል ንላዕሊ ውን ልዕል ልዕል ከም ዘበላን ንኣምን ኢና፡ መላእኽቲ ንወዲ እግዚኣብሔር ኣገልገልቱን ናይ ኢዱ ሥራሃት ፍጥሩን ኢዮም፡ ድንግል ማርያም ግን ኣገልጋሊቱ ጥራኢ ዘይኮነት ናይ’ዚ ሕያው ኣምላኽ ኣዲኡ ኢያ) ናት) ክብል ጽሒሑ ኔሩ። (Charles Drelincourt (1595-1669), cited in Thurian, page 89)
ሎሚ ድማ ብዘገርም መልክዑ ናይቲ እምነት ተኸተልቲ ኃጢኣት ኣለዋ ንጽህት ኣይኮነትን ድንግል ኣይኮነትን እናበሉ ምዝራቦም ምናልባት ብ 16 ክፍለ ዘመን ነዚ እምነት ዝመሥረትሎም ሰባት ዝመሃርዎ ትምህርቲ እኳ ኣየንበብዎን? ወይ’ስ ፈጺሞም ኣይፈልጥዎን ድዮም ኮይኖም? ወይስ ከምቲ ሐዋርያ ዝበሎ “ ናይቲ ንመሕደሪኡ ክጸርፍ ኣፉ ከፈተ ዝተባህለ ገበል ትምህርቲ ንምስፍሕፋህ ኢየ? (ራእ ዮሐ 13፡4-6) እቲ ምልሲ ዝኾነ ይኹን ንስሓ ኣትዮም ነዛ ቕንዕቲ እምነት ተኸቲሎም ንኽጐዓዙ ናኢዚ መጽሓፍ ኣዳላዊ ምክሪ ኢዩ።
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ብመጽሓፍ ቅዱስ መሠረት ኃጢያትና ንመን ክንንሳሕ ይእዝዘና ᎒
ኦርቶዶክሳዊት ተዋሕዶ ቤተ ክርስቲያና ከም ትምህርና ኃጢያትና በሠለስተ ዓይነት መንገዲ ክንናሳሕ ትእዝዘና። ቀዳማይ ምስ ነብስና ብምዝርራብ ፡ ካልእ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህን ብዝርዝር ንንሳሕ ፡ ሣልሳይ ኣብ ቅድሚ እግዚአብሔር ኣምላክ ብጸሎትን ብስግዳንን እናተኣሰነና ንንሳሕ።

ቀዳማይ ምስ ነብስና ምንሳሕ ከም ዝግብኣና ዝምህረና እቲ ናይ ጥፉእ ወዲ ታሪኽ ንመልከት። እቲ ናይ ኣቡኡ ንብረት ሒዙ ርሑቅ ዓዲ ጠፍአ ድሕሪ ናብ ልቡ ምምላሱ ከምዚ በለ ;- “ናብ ኣቦይ ክኸይድ እሞ፥ ኣቦይ፡ ንሰማይን ኣብ ቅድሜኻን ኃጢኣት ገበርኩ ደጊም ወድኻ ኽብሃል ኣይበቅዕን እየ፡ ከም ሓደ ኻብ ግዙኣትካ ግበረኒ ክብሎ ኢየ ”( ሉቃ 15 ፡17) ተንሢኡ ከኣ ናብ ኣብኡ ከደ ሕድገት ከኣ ተገብረሉ። ኣብ ዘይቦትኡ ግን ንነብስኻ ይኹን ንኻልእ ኃጢአትካ ምንሳሕ እኹል ኣይኮነን ፡ እኹል ተዝኸውን ኔይሩ ይሁዳ እስቆርታዊ “ንጹህ ደም ኣሕሊፈ ብምሃበይ በደልኩ” ብምባሉ ምድኃነ ነይሩ ( ማቴ 27፡4)።

ካልኣይ ዓይነት ንስሓ ከኣ ኣብ ቅድሚ ኣበ ነፍሲ (ካህናት) ቀሪብካ ንንስሖ ንስሓ ኢዩ።

ሣልሳይ ዓይነት ንስሓ ከኣ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህናት ቆይምና ምስ ተናሳሕና ዝግባእ ተግሳጽን ቀኖናን ምስ ተዋኅበና ኣብ ቅድሚ እግዚአብሔር ብጾምን ብስግደትን ነብጽሖ ናይ ንስሓ ጸሎት ኢዩ። ንኣብነት ንጉስ ዳዊት ንናይ እግዚአብሔር ነቢይ ናታን (ንእግዚአብሔር በደልኩ) ኢሉ ኃጢአቱ ድሕሪ ምእማን (ኦ ኣምላኽ፣ ከም ሳህልኻ ምሐረኒ፣ ከምቲ ዓብዪ ርህራሄኻ ኣበሳይ ደምስስ ; ካብ ኣበሳይ ኣጸቢቕካ ሕጸበኒ፣ ካብ ሓጢኣተይውን ኣጽርየኒ።) ብምባል ኢዩ ንጉስ ቅዱስ ዳዊት እናነብዐ ዝለመነ ( 2 ሳሙ 12፡13 መዝ 51፡ 1)

ካብዘን ሠለስተ ዓይነታት ንስሓ እቲ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህን ዝግበር ንስሓ ብብዙሓት ሕቶ ይለዓል ኢዩ። ብዛዕባ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህናት ቆይምካ ኃጢአት ምንሳሕ መጽሓፍ ቅዱስ እንታይ ይብለና ?

ካብ መጀመርያ ክንጅምር ኣብ ብሉይ ኪዳን ሓደ ሰብ ብእግዚአብሔር ንዝተሰርሐ ሕጊ ኣፍሪሱ በደል እንተደኣ ተረኺብዎ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህን ከይዱ ኃጢአቱ ክንሳሕ እቲ ካህን ከኣ ኃጢኣቱ ይድምሰሰሉ ነበረ። (ዘኁ.5፡5-6) ኣካን ዝተበኃለ ሰብ ኃጢአት ኣብ ዝሰርሓሉ ጊዜ ኣብቲ እዋን ናብ ናይ እግዚአብሔር ኣገልጋሊ ዝነበረ ካህን ኢያሱ ከይዱ ተናስሐ። ኢያሱ ንኣካን ኃጢአቱ ንኽናሳሕ ክሓቶ ኮሎ “ወደይ፡ በጃካ፡ ንእግዚአብሄር ኣምላኽ እስራኤል ኣኽብሮ ተናዘዘሉውን፡ እንታይ ከም ዝገበርካ ንገረኒ፡ ኣይትሕብኣለይ፡ በሎ”ብምባል ኃጢአትና ንካህን ምንሳሕ ንእግዚአብሔር ክብሪ ምሃብን ምንሳሕን ምዃኑ የረድኣና። (ኢያ 7 ፡ 19)

ነዚ ክነለዕል ኮለና ሓደ ሓደ ሰባት “ እዚ ደኣ ኣብ ብሉይ ኪዳን ኢዩ ፡ ግዜኡ ሓሊፉ እዩ” ክብሉ ይስምዑ። ናብ ኣርእስትና ጥልቅ ኢልና ቅድሚ ምርኣይና ንካህናት ኃጢአት ምንጋር ንእግዚአብሔር ክብሪ ዝህብ እንተደኣ ኮይኑ ብብሉይ ኪዳን ዝነበረ ኣምላኽ እግዚአብሔር ኣይኮነን’ ዶ ? ንምንታይ’ከ ኣብ ቅድሚ ካህናት ክንስሑ ፈቀደ? ከምዚ ኢልና ምሕታት ናይ ግድን ኢዩ።

ኣብ መጻሓፍቲ ሓዲሽ ኪዳን ናይ ኣዋጅ ቃላ ፈላሚ ዝነበረ መጥምቐ መለኮት ዮሐንስ ኣብ ዮርዳኖስ ከጥምቅ ከሎ ብዙሓት ናብኡ እናመጹ (ኃጢአቶም እናተነስሑ) ይጥመቁ ነይሮም (ማቴ. 3፡6) ። ንስሓ ምስማዕ ናይ ጐይታ ክብሪ ዝቅንሰሉ እንተዝኸዉን ነይሩ ናይ ኣዋጅ ነጋሪ ፡መንገዲ ጸራጊ ቅዱስ ዮሐንስ ኣብ ቅድመይ ኣይተናስሕ ኢሉ ከም ልማዱ ብዘይ ፍርሓት ምገሰጸ ነይሩ።

ብግልጺ ጐይታናን መድኃኒናን ኢየሱስ ክርስቶርስ ንሓዋርያቱ፣ ኣብ ምድሪ ዝኣሰርክሞ ዅሉ ኣብ ሰማይ እሱር ኪኸውን እዩ። ኣብ ምድሪ ዝፈታሕክሞ ኵሉ ድማ ኣብ ሰማይ ፍቱሕ ኪኸውን እዩ” ብምባል ሥልጣን ኂብዎም ኢዩ። እዚ ሓዋርያት ዝፈትሑልና ማእስርቲ “ማዕሰረ ኃጢአት”(ናይ ኃጢአት ማእሰርቲ) ከም ዝኾነ ኣብ ዮሐንስ ወንጌል ብዝሰፍሐ ተገሊጹ ኣሎ “ኃጢኣቶም ንዝሐደግኩምሎም ይሕደገሎም፡ ንዝሐዝኩምሎም ከኣ ይተሐዘሎም እዩ”። ማቴ.16:19 ዮሐ. 20:23።

ሰብ ባዕሉ ንሓዋርያት እንተ-ዘይተናስሐ ኃጢአቱ ይቅረ ክብሉሉ ኮነ ክሕዙሉ ኣይክእሉን ኢዮም። ብዝተወሃቦም ፀጋ ናይ ሰብ ኃጢአት ብዘይ ንስሓ ይቅረ እንተበሉ ግና ናይ ሰብ ውልቃዊ ምስጢሩ (privacy) ዝትንክፍ “ክትሓዊዶ ትደልይ ኢኻ” ከይበሉ ምድሓን ይኸውን ኣሎ ማለት ኢዩ። በዚ ምኽንያት ሰብ ብናይ ሓዋርያት ስብከት ናብ ክርስትና ክመጹ’ከ ዝኣበስዎ ዝበደልዎን ኃጥያት ይንስሑ ነይሮም። ግ.ሓዋ.19፡18። ቅዱስ ያዕቆብ ኣብ መልእኽቱ ዝሓመመ ሰብ ካህናት ይጸውዕ ምስ በለ ኣብኡ ከሎ “ንሓድሕድኩም ኃጢኣትኩም ተአመኑ” ብምባል ከማና ሥጋ ለበስ ከም ምዃኖም ክንሓምም ኮለና ዝጽልዩልና ካህናት ኃጢኣትና ክንሳሕ ኣዚዙና ኢዩ። ያዕ. 5፡16-17።

ኃጢኣትና ንካህናት ንናዘዝ ካህናት ክመኽሩናን ክግስጹናን ጥራሕ ኣይኮነን፡ “ኃጢኣቶም ንዝሐደግኩምሎም ይሕደገሎም፡ ንዝሐዝኩምሎም ከኣ ይተሐዘሎም” ብዝብል ናይ ሓዋርያዊ ሥልጣን ስለዝሐዙን ይቅሬታ ንምውሃብ ሥልጣን ስለዘለዎም ኢዩ። ስለምንታይ ንሓዋርያት ዝተወሃቦም ሥልጣን እናተወራረሰ (Apostolic succession) ኣብ ኣቦታትና ካህናት ከም ዝበጽሐ ንኣምን። ሥልጣነ ክህነት ምኽሪ ምኃብ ጥራይ ሥርሑ እንተዝኸዉን ናብ ኣቦታት ካህናት ርእስኻ ምድናን ኣይመድለየን፡ ናብ ፈቐዶ ቦታ ቤት ጽሕፈት ከፊቶም ዘለዎ ናይ ሥነ ልቦና ሰብ ሞያ ምዉካስ ዝያዳ ምስ ተመርጸ።

ንካህናት ኃጢአት ምንጋር ምስ ናይ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ሊቀ ካህናትነትን ይቅረ ባሃሊነትን ዝገራጨው ዝመስሎምን ብሐዲስ ኪዳን እንትርፎ ሊቀ ካህናት ክርስቶስ ካልኦት ካህናትን ኣገልገልቲን ኣይድልዪን ኢዮም ዝብሉ ኣለው። ነዚ ብዙሕ ከይደኸምና ካብቲ ሕቶ መልሲ ክንረክብ ንኽእል ኢና። ሊቀ ካህናት ዝብል ስም ካልኦት ካህናት ከም ዘለዉ ይነግር። ሊቀ ካህናት ማለት ናይ ካህናት ሓለቃ(ሓላፊ) ማለት ክኸዉን ከሎ ካልኦት ካህናት ዘይብሉ ናይ ካህናት ሓለቃ ዝብል ሽመት ክህልው ከምዘይከኣል ይሕበርና ። ነዚ ኢዩ ኣምላኽና መድኃኒና ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ናይ ካህናት ሃለቃ(ሓላፊ)፡ ናይ ጓሶት ሃለቃ ክኸውን ከሎ ቀሳውስት ከኣ ካህናት ጓሶት ይበኃሉ። ራእ.5፡9 ፤ 1ጴጥ. 5፡4።

ኣብ ኦሪት ሠለስተ ዓይነት ሽመት ነይሩ፡ ሊቀ ካህናት (ናይ ቤት አሮን በኹሪ ዉላድ)፡ካህናት (በኹሪ ዘይኮኑ ደቂ ኣሮን)፡ሌዋውያን (ካብ አሮን ዘይውለዱ ነገደ ሌዊ ዝኮኑ ዉላድ) ነይሮም። ሊቀ ካህናት ብዓመት ሓንሳእ ናብ ቅድስት ብምእታው ኢዱ ዘርጊሑ ናይ እንስሳ መሥዋዕቲ ዘቅርብ ነበረ። ካህናት ዝበኃሉ ከኣ መሥዋእቱ ኣብ መሠውኢ ብምቅራብ ዕጣን ብምዕጣን ብዝኣመሰሉ ኣገልግሎት ዝሕግዙ ኢዮም። ሌዋውያን ከኣ ንካህናት ብትሕትና ዝእዘዙን ዘገልግሉን ዝንበሩ ኢዮም። ኣብ ሓዲስ ኪዳን ኣእዳዉ ኣብ መስቀል ዘርጊሑ ንነብሱ መሥዋእት ዝኃበ ሊቐ ካህናት መድኃኔዓለም ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ኢዩ። ነዚ “ብልዑ ስተዩ” ኢሉ ዝኃበና መሥዋእት (ሥጋን ደሙን) ኣብ መሠውኢ (ኣብ ታቦት መሠውኢ)ዘቅርቡን ዘገልግሉን ናይ ሕጂ ካህናት ከኣ ቀሳዉስት ኢዮም። ኣምሳለ ናይ ሌዋውያን ንካህናትን ቀሳውስትን እንዳሓገዙ ንተልእኾ ዝጎዩ ከኣ ዲያቆናት ኢዮም። ሊቀ ካህናት ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ሕጂ’ውን እንተኾነ ምስ ካህናት ኣብ ቤተመቅደስ ኣሎ፡ ኣብ ቅድስት ቤተ ክርስትያና ቅዱስ ጳዉሎስ ከም ዝበሎ “ ነቲ ድንኳን ዜገልግሉ ( ናይ ኦሪት ካህናት) ካብኡ ኺበልዑ መሰል ዜብሎም መሠውኢ (ታቦት መሠውኢ (Christian Altar) አሎና። ሊቀ ካህናት ዝብል ቃል ኦርቶዶሳዊ ተዋሕዶ ስእሊ እዚ ኢዩ። እብ. 13፡10

ዝተረፈና ናይ መወዳእታ ሕቶ ካህናት ኣብ ንስሓ ኃጠአት ይቅረ ናይ ምባሎም ምስ እግዚአብሔር ናይ ይቅረ ሥልጣን ዝትንክፍ ዘይምዃኑ ኢዩ። ይቅረ በሃሊ ልዑል እግዚአብሔር ኢዩ፡ ካህናት ዝጽልዩልና ናይ ንስሓ ጸሎትን ፍትሓት ዘወልድ መልእኽቱ እዚ ናይ እግዚአብሔር ይቅረ ባሃልነት ኢዩ።

ናይ ኤርትራ ኦርቶዶክስ ተዋህዶ ቤተ ክርስትያን ቀሳውስት ኃጢአትና ኣብ ቅድሚኦም ምስ ተናዘዝና ምሉእ ሥልጣን ከም ተዋህቦም “ኩኑ ፍቱሐነ (ፍቱሓት ኩኑ) እናበሉ ጸሎቶም ከይዕርጉ ግን ብትሕትና “እግዚአብሔር ይፍታሕካ ካብ ማእሰርቲ ኃጢአት” ዝብል ቃል እምበር “ ፈቲሐካ ኣለኹ፡ ነጻ ኢለካ ኣለኹ” ዝብል ቃል ካብ ኣፎም ኣይወጾምን ኢዩ።

ስለዚ ብዛዕባ ንኃጢያትና ንመን ክንሳሕ ከምዝግበ ኣና ብሓጺሩ ከምዚ ይመስል። ኣምላከ ቅዱሳን ኣብ ልቦናና የሕድረልና።

ናብዚ እንኣትዎ ዘለና ሓዲሽ ዓመት ብንስሓ ዝተሓጽበ ንጹሕ ልቦና ንእግዚአብሔር ዘስምር ሒዝና ክንፍልሞ ኣምላከ ቅዱሳን ኣብ ኩሉ ድኻምና ይደግፈና።
በረኸቱን ምሕረቱን የብዝኃልና። ናይ ኣዴና ቅድስተ ቅዱሳን ድንግል ማርያም ኣማላድነት ኣይፈለየና። አሜን ።

ወስብሐት ለእግዚአብሔር፣

ወለወላዲቱ ድንግል፣

ወለመስቀሉ ክቡር።

ማርያም ማለት እንታይ ማለት እዩ

 
ምዕራፍ  ፩
ማርያም ዝብል ቃል ብዕብራይስጥ ማሪሃም ክኸውን ከሎ ትርጉሙ ኸኣ እመ ብዙኃን (ኣደ ብዙሓት) ማለት እዩ፥ ኣብርሃም ኣበ ብዙኃን (ኣቦ ብዙሓት) ዝብል ትርጉም ከምዝህብ ማለት እዩ ዘፍ. 17፥5። ንምዃኑ ማርያም ማለት ምስጢራዊ ትርጉሙ እንታይ ማለት እዩ፧ መንፈሳውያን ኣበው ንስም ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም (እመቤትና) ብኸምዚ ዝስዕብ ኣመሥጢሮም ተርጒሞም እዮም፥ እዚ ከኣ ጸጋ ስለዝተዋህቦም እዩ እምበር ብኻልእ ኣይኮነን። ክንፈልጦ ዘይክኣልና ንሕና ሥጋውያን ኢና እምበር እቲ ወሃቢ ጸጋስ ይፈልጦ እዩ። እግዚኣብሔር ዘይከኣሎ ነገር ከምዘሎ ጌርና ኣይንጠራጠርን። ጐይታና ግን  “እቲ ብኣይ ዚኣምን ነዚ ኣነ ዝገብሮ ዘሎኹ ግብርታት ከም ዝገብር ካብኡ ዚዓቢ`ውን ከም ዚገብር ብሓቂ ብሓቂ እብለኩም ኣሎኹ” ኢሉ ንሰዓብቱ ተዛሪብዎም`ዩ ዮሓ. 14፥12። ኣምላኽና ይትረፍ ነዲኡ ንሰዓብቱ እውን ዘይጠፍእ ስምን ናይ ዘለዓለም መዘከርታን ኣብ ቤቱን ኣብ ውሽጢ ደምበኡን ሂብዎም`ዩ ኢሳ. 56፥5።

ሀ/ ማርያም ማለት መርሕ ለመንግሥተ ሰማይ፥ ናብ መንግስተ ሰማያት መሪሓ እተእቱ ማለት`ዩ።
ካብ ክብሩ ዝተዋረደ፡ ካብ ማኀበረ መላእክት ዝተፈልየ፡ ምስ ኣምላኹ ዝተበኣሰ፡ ንግዝያዊ ድልየቱ ክብል ውሉድነት ስላሴ ዝሰኣነ ኣዳም ምስ ዘርኡ ናብ ዝቐደመ ክብሩ ንኽምለስ ምኽንያት ዝኾነቶ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ምዃና ዝተዓጽወ ናይ ገነት ማዕጾ ዝተኸፈተ ብኣኣ ምዃኑን መርሓዊት ጽድቂ ስለዝኾነትን ናብ መንግስተ ሰማያት መሪሓ እተእቱ ትበሃል። በዚ ምኽንያት ከኣ ናታ ኣደነትን ኣማላድነትን ጸግዒ ከይገበረ ናብ መንግስተ ሰማያት ምእታው ዝከኣሎ የሎን። ንናይ እግዚኣብሔር ናይ ድሕነት ስራሕ ክንዛረብ ከሎና ንድንግል ማርያም ክንርስዕ ኣይንኽእልን ኢና። ምኽንያቱ ንጐይታ ዝወለደት፥ ሓዚላ ዝተሰደት፥ ኣብ ዝመሃረሉ እዋን`ውን ምስኡ ከርተት ዝበለት እያ። ኣብ ዝተሰቕለሉ እዋን`ውን ካብ እግሪ መስቀሉ ኣይተፈልየትን። ልዕሊ ኩሉ ድማ ንክርስቶስ ጐይታ መንግሥተ ሰማያት ኣዲኡ እያ።

ለ/ ማርያም ማለት ጸጋን ሃብትን ማለት እዩ።
ቅዱስ ገብርኤል መልኣኽ ኣብ ሉቃ. 1፥28 <> ብምባል ምሉእ ዝኾነ ጸጋን ሃብትን ከምዝተዋህባ ካብ ሥጋኣ ሥጋ ካብ ነፍሳ ነፍስ ወሲዱ ዝውለድ ናይ ሃብታት ኩሉ ጐይታ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ኩልሳዕ ምስኣ ከምዝኾነ መስኪሩ`ዩ። እቲ ምስክርነቱ ኸኣ ሓቂ እዩ። ንእግዚኣብሔር ይኣምኖ`የ እንዳበለ ናይ ዝኸበረት ኣዲኡ ኣማላድነት ዘይቅበልን ዘየፍቅራን ሰብ ካብቲ ጸግኡን ካብ መንፈሳዊ ሃብትን ንርእሱ ድኻ ከም ዝገበረ ክፈልጥ ኣለዎ። ንዝተዋህባ ኣምላኻዊ ውህበት ምንዓቕን ከም ዘይጠቅም ጌርካ ምዝራብን ነቲ ጐይታ ውህበት ንዝኾነ እግዚኣብሔር ምንዓቅ እዩ። ነቲ ዝጠቅም ጸጋ`ውን ከንቱ ምግባር እዩ።

እግዚኣብሔር ንዝመረጻ፥ ንዘኽበራ፥ ንዝፈትዋን መሕደሪኡ (ኣዲኡ) ጌሩ ንዝፈለያ፥ ዝኹንን፥ ዘነኣእስን ዘዋርድን ሰብ ብመንፈስ ቅዱስ ካብ ዝወሃብን ካብ ዝርከብን ጸጋን ሃብትን ዝዓረቐ (ዝተፈለየ) እዩ። ስለዚ ንሕና ክንገብሮ ዝግባእ እግዚኣብሔር ፈትዩ ጸግኡን ሃብቱን ብዝዓደላ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ኣማላድነት ብምእማን ናይቲ ጸጋ ተሳተፍቲ ምዃን እዩ። ንዓኣ ንፈቱን ነኽብርን ኹልና ነዚ መዓርግን ክብርን ንዝመረጻ እግዚኣብሔር ንፈትዎን ነኽብሮን። ንዓኣ`ውን ክትፍቶ፥ ክትክበርን ክትምስገንን ዝገበረ ናይ እግዚኣብሔር መንፈስ እዩ። ካብ ድንግል ማርያም ዝተወልደ መድኃኔዓለም ንኣዳም ናብ ዝቐደመ ክብሩ ስለዝመለሶ ኣዳም ስኢንዎ ንዝነበረ መንፈሳዊ ሃብትን ናይ ውሉድነት ጸጋን ረኺቡ`ዩ። ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም (እመቤትና) እውን ጸጋን ሃብትን ዝተረኽበላ እያ።

ሐ/ ማርያም ማለት ብሥጋን ብነፍስን ፍጽምቲ ማለት እዩ።
እግዚኣብሔር ንጹሓ ባሕርይ፥ ቅዱስን ፍጹምን ክኸውን ከሎ ነቲ ድኹም ዝኾነ ናይ ኣዳም ሥጋ ተዋሂዱ ንናይ ደቂ ሰባት ዘርኢ ካብ ባርነት ናጻ ምእንቲ ከውጽእ መሕደሪ ዝኾኖ ይደሊ ነበረ። ብምዃኑ`ውን ነቲ ንጹሕ ባሕርይ ዝኾነ እሳተ መለኮት ክትጸውር ዝመረጻ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም እያ። ቅድመ ዓለም ብኣምላኽ ሕልና ተሓሲባ ዝነበረት፥ ናይ ኣዳም ኃጢኣት ዘይሓለፋ (ዘይተንከፋ)፡ ንጽሕተ ንጹሓን፡ ቅድስተ ቅዱሳን ብምዃና ብስጋን ብነፍስን ፍጽምቲ ትበሃል። ፍጽምቲ ማለት መንቅብን ጉድለትን ዘይብላ ማለት`ዩ። ቅዱስ ጳውሎስ ኣብ ዕብ. 5፡14 > ብምባል ብዛዕባ ፍጹማን ተዛሪቡ`ዩ። ቅዱስ ያዕቆብ`ውን ኣብ ምዕ. 1፡4 <> ኢሉ`ዩ። ኖኅ ብትውልዱ ጻድቕ ፍጹም ሰብ`ውን ኔሩ ዘፍ. 6፡9። ኢዮብ ፍጹምን ቅኑዕን ንእግዚኣብሔር`ውን ዝፈርህ ካብ ክፍኣት`ውን ዝረሓቐ`ዩ ኔሩ ኢዮ. 1፡1።ይትረፍ`ዶ ኣደ ኣምላኽ ብእምነትን ኣካይዳን ዝበሰሉ፡ ዝዓበዩን ዝጸንዑን ናይ እግዚኣብሔር ሰባት ፍጹማን ተባሂሎም`ዮም። ብምዃኑ`ውን ብናይ ኣዴና ፍጽምቲ ምዃና ክንጠራጠር ኣይግባእን። ንሳ ካብዞም ኩሎም ትበልጽ እያ እሞ፡ እዚ ከምዚ እንተኾይኑ ጥርጥር ቦታ ኣይክህልዎን`ዩ።

መ/ ማርያም ማለት መልዕልተ ፍጡራን መትሕተ ፈጣሪ፡ ካብ ፍጡራን ንላዕሊ ካብ ፈጣሪ ንታሕቲ ዘላ ማለት እዩ
ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ናይ ባሕርይ ኣምላኽ ናይ ኢየሱስ ኣደ ብምዃና ኩልሳዕ ብምፍራህን ብምንቅጥቃጥን ቅዱስ ቅዱስ ቅዱስ እንዳበሉ ካብ ዘመስግንዎ መላእኽቲ`ኳ ዝበለጸ ክብሪ ኣለዋ። ኣብ ኢሳ. 6፡2 ሱራፌል (መላእኽቲ) ኣብ ቅድሚ ናይ እግዚኣብሔር ዝፋን ደው ኢሎም ኣብ ዘመስግኑሉ እዋን ብኽልተ ኣኽናፎም ንገጾም ይሽፍኑ፡ ብኽልተ ኣኽናፎም ከኣ ንእግሮም ይሽፍኑ። ብክልተ ኣኽናፎም ከኣ ይነፍሩ። መዓልትን ለይትን ከኣ ከየዕረፉ የመስግንዎ ራዕ. 4፡7-9። እቶም ዕስራን ኣርባዕተን ካህናተ ሰማይ ኣብ ዝፋኑ ንዘሎ ኣምላኽ ኣብ ቅድሚኡ ወዲቖም ካብ ዘለዓለም ክሳዕ ዘለዓለም ብህይወት ንዝነብር እንዳሰገዱ ክብሪ ምስጋና ሓይሊ ክትቅበል ይግበኣካ እዩ ይብልዎ ራዕ. 4፡11። ንሳ ግን ኣብ ማኅፀና ተሰኪማቶ፡ ጡባ`ውን ኣጥቢያቶ፣ ኣብ ዝባና ሓዚላቶ፡ ሓቚፋቶ። ሄሮድስ ከይቀትሎ`ውን ሒዛቶ ተሰዲዳ፡ ኣብ በረኻ`ውን ነበረት። ከምዚ እንዳበለት ኣብ መስቀል ክሳዕ ዝስቀል ኣይተፈልየቶን። መላእኽቲ ይትረፍ`ዶ ክትንክፍዎ፣ ክርእይዎ ንዘይከኣሎም ባህርየ መለኮት ኣብ ማኅፀና ተሰኪማቶ እያ እሞ ካብ ፍጡራን ኹሉ ንላዕሊ ካብ ፈጣሪ ንታሕቲ ብዃና ዝተኣመነ እዩ። እቲ ዓቢ ናይ ቤተ ክርስትያና ኣቦ ቅዱስ ያሬድ`ውን <> ኢልዋ`ዩ። እምበኣር እምነት ካብ ምስማዕ እዩ። ምስማዕ ከኣ ካብ ቃል እግዚኣብሔር ብምዃኑ ንእመን። ኣይንጠራጠር ሮሜ 10፡16። ኣዴና ልዕልቲ እያ እሞ ብኣኣ ንመካሕ። ጐይታ ዝሃበና ትምክሕትና ስለዝኾነት።
 

ሰ/ ማርያም ማለት እግዝእተ ብዙኃን (ናይ ብዙሓት እመቤት) ማለት እዩ።
ብምኽንያት ናይ ኣዲኦም ሔዋን ስሕተትን ሞተ ነፍስን ኣደ ስኢኖም ሕዙናት ኮይኖም ዝነበሩ ደቂ ሰባት ኩሎም ብኣዲኦም ኣቢሉ ንዝመጾምን ንዝተፈርዶምን ሞት ንሱ ኸኣ ብምኽንያት ኃጢኣት ካብ ዝመጸ መግዛእቲ (ባርነት) ዲያብሎስ ናጻ ንዘውጽኦም ኣምላኽ ዝወለደትሎም፡ ምንጪ ሓጎሶም ዝኾነት ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ብምዃና ንሳ ንዝኣመንዋ ኩሎም ኣደ እያ እሞ ናይ ብዙሓት እመቤትን ኣደን ትበሃል። ኣደ ጐይታ እመቤት እያ። ሔዋን ናይ ሕያዋን ኩሉ ኣደ ተባሂላ ኔራ ዘፍ. 3፡20። እመቤት ማለት ኣብ ሓደ ስድራ ኣመሓዳሪትን ኃላፊትን ዝኾነት ዝኸበረት ኣደ ማለት እዩ። እምበኣር ክርስቲያናት ኩሉ ብክርስቶስ ሓደ ስድራ ብምዃንና ኣዲኡ ድንግል ማርያም ንዓና ኣዴና (እመቤትና) እያ። 
         
ረ/ ማርያም ማለት ኣብ ምድሪ > ኣብ ሰማይ > ዝብሉ ቃላት ተራኺቦም ዝተረኸበ ስም እዩ።


ኣብ ምድሪ ኣብ ዝነበሩ ሰባት ብጣዕሙ ዝወዳደሮ ዘይርከብ ምግቢ > (መዓር) እዩ። ከምኡ`ውን ኣብ ገነት ቅዱሳን ዝምገብዎ ኣብ ብሔር ሕያዋንን ኣብ ብሔረ ብፁዓንን ንዝነብሩ ቅዱሳን ጥራይ ዝኾነ ኣዝዩ ጥዑም > ዝበሃል ምግቢ ኣሎ። ኣዴና ድንግል ማርያም ርኅራኄኣን ፍቕራን ኣብ ምድሪ ኣብ ዘለዉን ኣብ ሰማይ ኣብ ዝነብሩን ኩሉ ኣዝዩ ጥዑም ብምዃኑ > ተባሂላ`ያ። ጣዕማን ፍቕራን ዘይጽገብ እዩ እሞ፣ መድሓኒና ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ኣብ ዮሓ. 3፡12 > ከምዝበለ ሎሚ`ውን ኣብ ምድሪ ብዘሎ ብክብሪ ሥዕላ፣ ብናይ ጸበላ ፈውሲ ዘይኣምኑ ሰባት ኣብ ላዕሊ ንዝተጠቕሰ ነገር ምቕባል ይሽገሩ ይኾኑ። ዋላ`ዃ እንተተሸገሩ እቲ ሓቂ ግና ንሱ`ዩ።

ኣብ ላዕሊ ካብ ዝተገልጸ ብተወሳኺ ናይ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ናይ ስማ ኣርባዕተ ፊደላት ቀጺሉ ብዝቐረበ መልክዕ`ውን ምስጢሩ ተተርጕሙ ይርከብ። እዚ ኸኣ ኣቦታትና ንዓኣ ዘለዎም ፍቅሪ ዝገልጽ እዩ። በዚ መሠረት፦

> ማኅደረ መለኮት (ናይ መለኮት መሕደሪ) ምዃና ይገልጽ። ንኩሉ ዓለም ኣብ ኢዱ ንዝጨበጠ፣ ኣብዚ ኣሎ ኣብቲ የሎን ንዘይበሃል፣ ክጽወር ንዘይከኣል ነቲ ረቂቕ ባህርየ መለኮት ኣብ ማኅፀና ዝተሰከመት ናይ መለኮት መኅደሪ ትበሃል። ኣባ ሕርያቆስ > መለኮት ንጴጥሮስ ከምዘርኣዮ ኩሉ ኣብ ኢዱ ትሑዝ እዩ ኢሉ እዩ። መለኮት ከኣ ሥጋን ነፍስን ወሲዱ ንሰብ ከድሕን ኣብ ድንግል ማርያም እዩ ሓዲሩ፡

> ርግብየ ይቤላ (ሰሎሞን ርግበይ ይብላ)። ንጉሥ ሰሎሞን > ኢልዋ`ዩ መኃ. 6፡9። እምበኣር ናይ ጸጋ ደቃ ኢና`ሞ፣ ንሕና`ውን ነታ ሓንትን ዝተመርጸትን ርግቢት ንድንግል ማርያም ብፍቕሪ ንርኣያ፡ ነመስግና`ውን። ድሕሪ ሓሙሽተ ሽሕን ሓሙሽተ ሚእትን ናይ ጸልማት ዘመናት ዝተረኽበት ናይ ወጋሕታ ብርሃን ብምዃና ምእንቲ ክንርእያ ናብኣ ንቕረብ። ብዝጸበቐት ወርሒ ተመሲላ እያ`ሞ ጽባቐኣ ማለት ንጽሕናኣን ቅድስናኣን ነድንቕ። ከም ፀሓይ ዝደመቐት ተባሂላ እያ`ሞ ምስ ኣደ ኣምላኽነታ መንቅብ ዘይብላ ብሥጋን ብነፍስን ፍጽምቲ ምዃና ንእመን። ክብርቲ ስለዝኾነት ንዓኣ ካብ ምድፋር ናብ ምፍራህን ምኽባርን ንመለስ። ምስ እግዚኣብሔር ተባኢሱ ሰላም ስኢኑ ዝነበረ ወዲ ሰብ ሰላም ዝረኸበላ ናይ ሰላም ትእምርቲ ብምዃና ርግቢት ትበሃል። ምእንቲ ደቂ ሰባት ናብ እግዚኣብሔር ብኣማላድነት ትለኣኽ ናይ ሰላም ልእኽቲ፣ ብስራት ነጋሪት እያ እሞ ርግቢት ንብላ። ናይ ማይ ኣይኂ ናይ ምጉዳል ብስራት ንኖኅ ዘበሰረት ርግቢት እያ ዘፍ.8፡8-12። ኣብ ልዕሊ ኣዳምን ደቁን ተኣዚዙ ንዝነበረ ጥፍኣትን መከራ ሲኦልን ናይ ምብቃዕ ትእምርቲ ዝኾነት ርግቢት ድንግል ማርያም እያ። ርግቢት ማይ ለውሃት ኣብነት እያ ማቴ. 10፡16። ኣዴና ለዋህ ርግቢት ትብሃል። እምበኣር ብዝተፈላለየ መልክዑ ዝተፈለናያ ንሳ ቂም በቐል ዘይትፈልጥ ለዋህ ርግቢት ስለ ዝኾነት ብፍጹም ትሕትና ናብኣ ንመለስ። ምኽንያቱ ጐይታ ምስኣ ስለዝኮነ ሉቃ. 1፡28።

> ያንቀዐዱ ኃቤኪ ኩሉ ፍጥረት (ፍጥረታት ኩሎም ለምንልና እንዳበሉ ናባኺ የንቃዕርሩ) ማለት እዩ። ንሰብ ምስ እግዚኣብሔር ተተዓርቕ፣ ኣብ መንጐ ሰብን ፈጣሪን እትርከብ፣ ናይ ፍጥረት ኩሉ ኣማላዲት ብምዃና ኩሉ ፍጥረት ኣማልድልና እንዳበሉ ናብኣ የንቃዕርሩ። ካብ ፈጣሪ ምሕረትን ይቕሬታን ተውህብ እያ እሞ። ቀደም እውን እንተኾነ ሰብ ምስ እግዚኣብሔር ዝተዓረቐ ኣብ ልዕሊ መስቀል ኣብ ዝተፈጸመ ቤዛነት (በጃ ምዃን) እዩ። ነዚ ናይ ክርስቶስ በጃ ምዃን ብዕምቈት እንተርኢናዮ ብዙሕ ዝምህረና ነገር ኣሎ። ዓለም ዝደሓነ፣ ምስ ፈጣሪኡ`ውን ዘተዓረቐ፡ ክርስቶስ ሥግኡ ስለጽቆረሰሉ፡ ደሙ ስለዘፍሰሰሉን ነፍሱ ኣሕሊፉ ስለዝሃበሉን እዩ። እዚኦም ኩሎም ዝተረኽቡ ኸኣ ብምኽንያት ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም እዩ። በዚ ኸኣ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ንሰብ ምስ እግዚኣብሔር ከተተዓርቕ ዝተመርጸት ምዃና ነስተውዕል። እምበኣር ነዚ ምስጢር ብምርዳእ ንዓኣ ዕረቕና ናብ ምባል ሕጂ ክንምለስ ይግባእ። ቆልዓ ክጠምዮ ከሎ ናብ ኣዲኡ ከምዘንቃዕርር ማለት እዩ። ሰብ ኣብ ልዕሊኡ ናብ ዘሎ ከንቃዕርር ዝተለምደ እዩ። ድንግል ማርያም`ውን ካባና ንላዕሊ ኢያ። ስለዚ ናብኣ ነንቃዕርር። ኣብ ግብ. ሐዋ. 3፡1-10 ከምዝተገለጸ ካብ ከርሲ ኣዲኡ ጀሚሩ ኣእጋሩ ዝሞተሰብኣይ ቅዱስ ጴጥሮስ ምስ ቅዱስ ዮሓንስ ኮይኑ ጠመቶ እሞ ናባና ጠምት በሎ፥ ንሱ ኸኣ ካብኣቶም ገለ ዝረክብ ተኲሩ ጠመቶም ንሳቶም ደው ኢሎም ንሱ ኮፍ ኢሉ ስለዝነበረ ኣንቃዕረረ። ቅዱስ ጴጥሮስ ግና > ኢሉ የማናይ ኢዱ ሒዙ ብስም ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ኣተንስኦ። እቲ ሰብ`ውን ሓውዩ ንእግዚኣብሔር እንዳመስገነ ናብ ቤት መቕደስ ኣተወ።

ሎሚ`ውን እንተኾነ ብጽድቂ ክንስጉም ዘይከኣልና ኩልና ስንኩላን ኢና። እቲ ኣእጋሩ ዝሞተ ሰብኣይ ሓደ ነገር ክቅበል ናብ ቅዱሳን ሓዋርያት ከም ዘንቃዕረረ ንሕና`ውን ናብ ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያምን ናብ ቅዱሳንን ነንቃዕርር። ብዝበለጸ እውን ንምልእቲ ጸጋ ኣዴና ድንግል ማርያም ንልምና፡ ኩሉ ስለእትህበና ኸኣ ናብኣ ነንቃዕርር። ይትረፍ`ዶ ኣደ ጐይታ እቶም ናይ ጐይታ ደቂ መዛሙርት እኳ ዘለዎም ሂቦም`ዮም። ንሳ ኸኣ የማናይ ኢድና ሒዛ ብመንፈሳዊ ህይወት ብክልተ እግርና ደው ከምእንብል ትገብረና። ሽዑ ጉዕዞና ንእግዚኣብሔር እናመስገንና ናብቲ ሰመያዊ መቕደስ ይኸውን። ብኻልእ ወገን ሓዋርያዊት ዝኾነት ኦርቶዶክስ ተዋህዶ ቤተ ክርስትያን ወርቅን ብሩርን የብላን፣ ዘለዋ ጸገ እግዚኣብሔር ጥራይ እዩ።

> ምስጋድ ወምስአል ወመስተሥራየ ኃጢኣተ (መስገዲ፡ መለመኒ፡ ናይ ኃጢኣት መስተሥረዪ) ማለት እዩ። ዝስገድ ኣብ ዝተቐደሰ ስፍራ፣ እግዚኣብሔር ኣብ ዝሓደረሉ፣ ጸግኡን መንፈሱን ኣብ ዝሓድረሉ ቦታ እዩ። ኣምላኽ ዝልመነና (ዝሰምዓና) እውን ብንጹሕ ልቦናን ብቕድስናን ብምዃን እዩ። እዚ ዝኣመሰለ ስግደትን ልመናን ጸሎትን ንሓጢኣት የስተሥርዮ እዩ 2ይ ዜና. 7፡11-18። በዚ ዓይነት ክንርእዮ ከለና እግዚኣብሔር ዝሓደረላ፣ ብቅዱስ መንፈሱ ዝረኣያ፣ በቲ ንሱ ዝልመነሉ ንጹሕን ቅዱስን ስፍራ ትምሰል ቅድስቲ ድንግል ማርያም ኸኣ መስገድን መለመንን ናይ ኃጢኣት መስተሥርዪ ትበሃል። ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ንናይ ዓለም ኃጢኣት ዘስተስርየ (ዝደምሰሰ) ካብኣ ንዝወሰዶ ስጋ ብምቑራስ፣ ደሙ ብምፍሳስ፡ ንነፍሱ ኣሕሊፉ ብምሃብ እዩ። ብምዃኑ`ውን ብኣማላድነታ ንኃጢኣንና ከተስተሥርየልና > ንበላ።

ብኣጠቓላሊ ማርያም ማለት ኣብ መንጐ ሰብን እግዚኣብሔርን ብፍጹም ፍቕርን ለውሃትን ምእንቲ ድኅነት ሰባት ብኣማላድነታ እትለኣኣኽን ተራኽብን መሳልል ማለት እዩ። እስራኤል ንኤርምያስ ከምዝለመንዎ ናብ እግዚኣብሔር ከምዝለኣኽዎን ንድንግል ማርያም ንልምናን ንልእኻን ኤር. 42፡2። እስራኤል ንኤርምያስ ምልኣኾም ጠቒምዎም እዩ፣ ንሕና`ውን ብናይ ድንግል ማርያም ኣማላድነት ንጥቀም እምበር ኣይንጉዳእን ኢና። እምበኣር ኣብ ዝቕጽል ምዕራፋት ካብ ዝተፈላለዩ ናይ መጽሓፍ ቅዱስ ንባባት ብዛዕባ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም (እመቤትና) ብምስላ፣ ብትንቢትን ብግብርን፡ ብምስጢርን ብግህዶን ተጻሒፉ ንረክብ።
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YOU HAVE COME FROM GOD

Life is A Beautiful Struggle
“You have come from God, you are a spark of His Glory. You will get peace only when you again merge in Him.”
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Unashamed love.: Love isn’t a stupid Taylor Swift song.

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what i want more than anything out of a man is somebody who will stand by my side as we fight the good fight of faith together. i want somebody to carry His name all over the world with me. i want people to see Christ in our relationship before they see anything else.
i haven’t been somebody that…
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I am blessed. Everything happens for a reason.
1. I am human & I need to be loved, just like everybody else does.          
    
2. There comes a point in your life, when you’re officially an adult. Suddenly, people expect you to be responsible, serious, a grown up. We get taller, we get older. But do we ever grow up? No matter how much we grow taller, grow older, we are forever stumbling…forever wondering, forever…young.
     
3. Whatever you do in life will be insignificant, but it’s very important that you do it. Because nobody else will. Like,when someone comes into your life and half of you says: “You’re no way ready, but the other half says: Make her yours forever.”
        
4. Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.
       
5. Science cannot solve the ultimate mystery of nature. And that is because, in the last analysis, we ourselves are part of nature and therefore, part of the mystery that we re trying to solve.

      
6. How do you see the morning today?
Scientist- Another day to experiment.
Prisoner- Another day to repent for my sin.
President- One more valuable time to lead.
Doctor- Countless moments to save a life.
Artist- Timed event for a masterpiece.
Lover- Another day to embrace and kiss.
Child- A whole new day to play.
Life is in different colors for everyone to see. But be the best person you can always be.
         
7. Life is all about risks, and it requires you to jump. Don’t be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had. No one lives forever.
       
8. I think that women are more intelligent than men; that’s why men have to be stronger. I really admire a woman for her intelligence, her personality, beauty is not enough. ~Roberto Cavalli
                
9. Sometimes it’s best to forget how you feel, and remember what you deserve.
       

10. I don’t understand how when somebody says that they want you in their life, but they never make an effort to make you a part of their life. Or when you tell a guy how you feel about them, they run away instead of listening to what you have to say. Or why men don’t treat women like they’re supposed to. I guess it’s something I’ll never understand.
      
11. I’ve come to realize that in this life, the only two people you can trust are God and yourself.
         
12. I’m sick of being the only one trying. When I’m long gone and no longer giving a second thought about you, you’re gonna wish you tried.
           
13. It is far more comforting to think God listened and said no, than to think that nobody’s out there- have a little faith.
        
14. Love is a funny thing. You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only in movies. You expect him to always say the right thing, and always know exactly how you feel, or exactly how to react to it. You expect him to calm you down when you’re yelling or to chase you when you run away. You expect so much that you feel entirely, utterly defeated when something doesn’t exactly match up with all your plans. But that’s the thing. Love isn’t a plan. It doesn’t have a certain beginning and it certainly has no end or visible finish line to those deeply in it.
Love is so incredibly messy. People around you can’t comprehend why you do the things you do, or why you fight so hard for something that seems to cause you so much pain, because simply, they can’t see. They can’t see the invisible ring of insanity that surrounds you when you’re in love. It’s inconvenient and painful and devastating at times, but we can’t live without it. What you don’t learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it. How it isn’t worth it until we are complete and utter idiots about it.
Love isn’t him calming you down when you yell. It’s him yelling, just as loud, just as hard, right back at you, right in your face to wake you up and to keep you grounded. It isn’t him bringing you roses everyday or cute things that make your relationship appear more presentable. 
It’s after a long fight, that drains the life and bones right out of you both, and yet him showing up at your door the next morning anyway. It’s not him saying all the right things or knowing exactly how to handle you. So no, it’s not her caressing your hair and telling you that everything’s going to be alright. It’s him standing there, admitting he’s just as scared as you are. You have to remember that with love, you’re not the only one involved. You’ve unknowingly put your life, your heart into the palms of another person’s hand and said “here. Do what you will. Mash it into mince meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you. As long as you have it.”
It makes us crazy. It makes us invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn’t cross. Because love isn’t about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It’s about scaring the crap out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting and all the tears and all the uncertainty is worth it. And it’s a lot better than being 100% happy without someone to show us that there is a world of difference between feeling ‘happy’ and feeling whole.
Life is a challenge, and so is love. Things never come easy in life; if they do, memories are rare, suffering won’t get you through the tough times, there’s nothing to look back on. There’s no mistakes that you learn from. In the end, it’s all worth it.
                                    
15. Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has a purpose.
        
16. “Give all of us gathered here tonight the strength to remember that life is so very fragile. We are all vulnerable, and we will all, at some point in our lives…fall. We will all fall. We must carry this in our hearts…that what we have is special. That it can be taken from us, and when it is taken from us, we will be tested. We will be tested to our very souls. We will now all be tested. It is these times, it is this pain, that allows us to look inside ourselves.” ~ Coach Taylor, Friday Night Lights
         
17. People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos, is because things are being loved, and people are being used.
         
18. Sometimes, you just have to distance yourself from people. If they care, they’ll notice. If they don’t, you know where you stand.
           
19. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” ~Jeremiah 29:11
         
20. “I pray that out of his glorious riches, He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your heart through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all of the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love surpasses knowledge- that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” ~Ephesians 3:16-19
          
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Send me away with the words of a love song1. Never compare your love story with those in the movies, because they are written by scriptwriters. Yours is written by God. 


        


2. Love me without fear. Trust me without wondering. Love me without restrictions. Want me without demand. 


      


3. A relationship with God is the most important relationship you can have.


     


4. Among other things, you’ll find that you’re not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You’re by no means alone on that score, you’ll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You’ll learn from them- if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It’s a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn’t education. It’s history. It’s poetry.


           


5. Real beauty is being aware of yourself and honest about who you are. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, you look beautiful on the outside, regardless of how many flaws you have. My flaws? I break out. I have cellulite. But all of that is just being human.


         


6. If you have to ask someone to change, to tell you they love you, to bring wine to dinner, to call you when they land, you can’t afford to be with them. It’s not worth the price, even though, just like the Tiffany catalog, no one tells you what the price is. You set it yourself, and if you’re lucky, it’s reasonable. You have a sense of when you’re about to go bankrupt. Your own sense of self-worth takes the wheel and says, “Enough with this stuff. Stop making excuses. No one’s that busy at work. No one’s allergic to whipped cream. There are too cell phones in Sweden.” But most people don’t get lucky. They get human. They get crushes. This means you irrationally mortgage what little logic you own to pay for this one thing. This relationship is an impulse buy, and you’ll figure out if it’s worth it later.


             


7. Sometimes, our lives can change so fast that the change outpaces our mind and hearts. It’s those times, I think, when our lives have altered but still long for the time before everything was altered-this is when we feel the greatest pain. I can tell you, though, from experience, you grow accustomed to it. You learn to live your new life, and you can’t imagine, or even really remember how things were before.


         


8. Hear with your heart, see with your soul, be guided by a hand that you cannot hold, trust even if you cannot see. That’s how faith must be. Sometimes the things we can’t change, end up changing us instead.


         


9. In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.


         


10. I can’t say that I’m mad at you, because I’m not. I can’t say that I hate you, because I don’t. And I can’t say that I’m done or that I’ll never talk to you again, because I know that I’m not. And I know that I will. But I can say that I hope and I pray, that if you really care about me at all, like you claim that you do, that you will stop setting me up, that you will stop saying things that you know you don’t mean.


        


11. We have this idea that love is supposed to last forever. But love isn’t like that. It’s a free-flowing energy that comes and goes when it pleases. Sometimes, it stays for life; other times it stays for a second, a day, a month, or a year. So don’t fear love when it comes, simply because it makes you vulnerable. But don’t be surprised when it leaves either. Just be glad you had the opportunity to experience it.


            


12. Sometimes it’s better when things aren’t perfect. At least that way, you know it’s real.


        


13. Is it me? Am I the reason people always leave? Am I the reason all these things keep happening to me? Maybe I’m just destined to be alone.


            


14. Do not look at the world through your head; look at it through your heart.


          


15. To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life.


        


16. Maybe my life hasn’t been so chaotic. It’s just the world that is and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it. Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation.


          


17. Americans know entertainment, they don’t know pleasure.


            


18. The rule of Quest Physics goes something like this: If you’re brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting, which can be anything from your house to bitter, old resentments, and set out on a truth seeking journey, either externally or internally, and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared, most of all, to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself, then the truth will not be withheld from you.


         


19. Traditionally, I have responded to the transcendent mystics of all religions. I have always responded with breathless excitement to any who has ever said that God does not live in a dogmatic scripture or in a distant throne in the sky, but instead abides very close to us indeed- much closer than anything we can imagine, breathing right through our own hearts. I respond with gratitude to anyone who has ever voyaged to the center of that heart, and who has then returned to the world with a report for the rest of us that God is an experience of supreme love.


        


20. Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it. You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it. 


      


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1. Everyone makes mistakes, and then you learn from them. If you ever happen to make the same mistake twice, the second time isn’t a mistake. It’s a choice.
            
2. The women who don’t seek attention are usually the women you need to be giving your attention to.
         
3. Not everyone or everything is worth fighting for. Sometimes what seems promising is nothing but a scenario and an ending that we’ve created in our heads. Throwing in the towel doesn’t always mean that you’re weak. It just means that you are strong enough to let go and allow God to take over. Whatever is meant to be…will be.
              
4. Whether we like it or not, whether we try to or not, whether we fight it or not, we always end up falling for the one who is horribly wrong for us.
                       
5. Did you ever notice, that when people tell you you’ve changed, it’s only because you stopped acting the way they want you to?
       
6. Dear Tummy, sorry for all the butterflies. Dear Pillow, sorry for all the tears. Dear Heart, sorry for the damage. Dear Brain, you were right.
           
7. Never tell God how big your problems are, but tell your problems how big your God is.
         
8. Sometimes the person you want the most is the person you’re best without.
                
9. Passion. One of the number one things that we look for in our partners. It’s a universal desire for someone to be passionate about you. It’s a plus when they are passionate about their own life, and about things that are important to them. It brings fervor and fire into any relationship and makes every day exciting. It’s odd that this is something we look for in people, as if there are people who aren’t passionate at all. Shouldn’t everyone have something that excites, defines and drives them? Otherwise, life would be boring and meaningless. Passion should not be optional.
        
10. The funny thing is, nobody ever really knows how much anybody else is hurting. We could be standing next to somebody who is completely broken and we wouldn’t even know it.
        
11. Helping people- that’s the key to life, the key to happiness. As an adult, you can get wrapped up in yourself and your career. A little secret, and one of the greatest ways to break that, is to stop thinking about yourself for a second.
          
12. Life can’t promise pure happiness, but everything would be better if you learn to accept the things you can’t change.
         
13. HEY YOU. Yes, you. Stop being unhappy with yourself. You are perfect. Stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people like you as much as they like someone else. Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. Love them. Without those things, you wouldn’t be you and why would you want to be anyone else? Be confident with who you are. Smile. It’ll draw people in. If anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself, then that’s their problem. My happiness will not depend on others anymore. I’m happy because I love who I am. I love my flaws. I love my imperfections. They make me “me.” And “me” is pretty amazing.
         
14. I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.
           
15. Faith is universal. Our specific methods for understanding it are arbitrary. Some of us pray to Jesus, some of us go to Mecca, some of us study subatomic particles. In the end, we are all just searching for the truth, that which is greater than ourselves.
         
16. You still have a lot of time to make yourself be what you want. There’s still lots of good in the world.         
17. People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle & shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.
       
18. Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel, always. Be you, and be okay with it.
       
19. In the end, we will conserve only what we love, we will love only what we understand, we will understand only what we are taught.
        
20. “I can see and understand only a little about God now, and all I know is hazy and blurred, but someday, I will see everything clearly, just as clearly as God sees into my heart right now.” 1 Corinthians 13:12
       
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It’ll only bring us closer to the love we wanna find1. I can tell you a lot about her. She’s someone with a huge heart. She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything. Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays. She smiles like she’s never been hurt, and if you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t ever imagine her to ever be hurt. But it happens, a lot more than anyone realizes. She’s really fragile, and it takes very little for her to be hurt, as she takes everything to heart. I’m not surprised though if you don’t know a lot though, because she’s really cautious and her letting someone close to her is a rare thing to happen. There are demons inside her that she’s constantly in a fight with. And she’s a lot worse to herself than anything that could be said to her. Her past is not one of her favorite subjects. She wouldn’t expect anyone to notice her or to listen to the things she has to say that aren’t necessary to be said. But I’m telling you, she’s so worth it all, she’s nothing you’d ever expect, and you’ll feel alive in a way that you’ve never have with her in your life.


        


2. Do you remember when we went to bed early on Christmas Eve, the day before Easter, and any night that we lost a tooth? We had to, or else we wouldn’t get presents, or the chocolate eggs, or that quarter. Remember running around in your witch costume, collecting candy from complete strangers, no matter how cold it was? Don’t forget the days of orderly lines onto the school bus, and waking up extra early for Saturday morning cartoons. What happened exactly? And when did I miss it happening? Now, we are walking in the door at 2 am on Christmas morning, being the Easter bunny, and only losing teeth if we did something stupid. We’re too old to trick-or-treat. We’re lucky if we even catch the bus and they don’t even play cartoons on Saturday mornings anymore. Maybe it’s our society, maybe it’s in our biological makeup, or maybe it’s the human desire to fit in. We left our childhood behind without even giving it a second thought, and now 95% of us would give anything to go back to it.


 


3. God wants so much more foryour life than “fine.”


           

4. Life is a journey, not so much a destination, but a transformation. Looking back, doesn’t it sometimes feel like our richest times come right in the midst of our hardest? But God made us to live in community, to laugh and cry, to hurt and to celebrate with each other, no matter what we’re going through. And transformation is tough, and we don’t always end up where we think we will. But we have to remember, that even when we struggle to believe in Him, He always believes in us. He fills our life with purpose and passion, if we just let Him. And the best part of the journey, is that the God of the Universe, sometimes allows us to play a part in changing the world. Isn’t that a trip?
      
5. Listen, God is not some little genie or a vending machine and is not just worth it because he makes your life all better, but He’s with you. 
         
6. If you ask me, there’s a moment in everybody’s life when you’re helpless, just helpless with hope and trust. And then something happens, something too big to understand and then everything changes forever.
           
7. Look at us, running around. Always rushed, always late. I guess that’s why they call it the human race. What we crave most in this world is connection. For some people, that happens at first sight. It’s when you know, you know. It’s fate working its magic. And that’s great for them. They get to live in a pop song. Ride the express train. But that’s not the way it really works. For the rest of us, it’s a bit less romantic. It’s complicated, it’s messy. It’s about horrible timing and fumbled opportunities. And not being able to say what you need to say when you need to say it. At least, that’s the way it was for me. But sometimes, it slows down just enough for all the pieces to fall into place. Fate works its magic. And you’re connected.
      
8. Each day is a treasure box of gifts from God just waiting to be opened. Open your gifts with excitement. You will find forgiveness attached to ribbons of joy. You will find love wrapped in sparkling gems.
              
9. I’ll stand, with arms high and heart abandoned in awe of the One who gave it all. I’ll stand, my soul Lord to You surrendered. All I am is Yours.
         
10. Sometimes, I feel alone. Some days are long and hard. But when I look out into the world, I am struck by the impossible beauty of it all. Those billions of magnificent accidents that lead us to where we are today, that led us to paper planes and nautilus shells and the tiny, crooked smiles of children. When I think of all the small perfections of the world, I have faith that my time will come. I have faith that someday, a warm light will flood over me, and I will find peace. 
          
11. Put God first in every aspect of your life.
        
12. God will take you through hell just to get you to heaven.
       
13. So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we’ll never know most of them. But even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.
           
14. Nothing is more beautiful than a girl who doesn’t pretend to be something she’s not, down to earth, and lets no guy define who she is.
          
15. Dear whoever is reading this: you’re beautiful and someone out there is crazy about you. So smile. Life’s too short to be unhappy.
              
16. What makes you happy? Is it the feeling you get when you’re excited but scared at the same time when a thunderstorm is happening? Or when you finally see someone you haven’t seen in a long time? Is it merely just loving life? If you think that achieving your goals, or being in a relationship, or thinking about your future makes you happy, you’re not. You can’t be authentically happy about things you have no control over.
         
17. You are a perfectly acceptable human being right now, this minute. You are just as valid as any other human being, without changing a single thing about yourself. That doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to want to grow, evolve or improve yourself, or you can’t do better sometimes. It just means that right now this instant, you are worthy of your own self love. Even if it is hard to love yourself sometimes, or you’re struggling with some really difficult stuff in your life, you still deserve it. So be kind to yourself, be kind to others, and give the best version of yourself that you can give, but know that even in the tough times, you are still valid, worthy and deserving.
         
18. Recognize your limitations and don’t overdo it. Don’t get too down on yourself for not getting things done. Try to eliminate thoughts revolving around a need to be “productive.” Recognize your needs and articulate them, especially when it comes to relationships with others. Realize there’s nothing wrong with being “selfish.” Cry when you need to. Identify and eliminate toxic people and behaviors from your life. Remember, you’re allowed to say “no,” and you deserve love too. Taking care of yourself and putting yourself first in a capitalist system is a form of resistance.
           
19. To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty, but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we only see the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember those times and places- and there are so many- where people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction. And if we do act, in however small a way, we don’t have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is a marvelous victory.
            
20. I think the biggest difference between me and her, is that she’s everything you want & I’m not.
            
21. God isn’t the one who is lost; we all are. God is where He always is. We need to stop trying to “find God” and instead rid ourselves of the things that we used to hide from God.
          
22. To be loved. To know that there is someone out there who would give their all to only be with you, someone more than willing to share their world with you. Someone who will take your hand and hold it, and never ever would they let it go, never would they want to let you go. Someone who holds you in their arms, someone who tells you he’s holding his entire world there at that very moment. A person who will love you with their all. To love and be loved, that is something I wish for.
       
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Scared of love, but scared of life alone.
1. Faith is not simply a patience that passively suffers until the storm is past. Rather, it is a spirit that bears things- with resignations, yes, but above all, with blazing, serene hope. 
                   
2. You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. I hope that someday you’ll join us. And the world will live as one.
            
3. This life is what you make it. No matter what, you’re going to mess up sometimes. It’s a universal truth. But the good part is, you get to decide how you’re going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends- they’ll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything- they’re your true best friends. Don’t let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they’ll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them- actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can’t give up because if you give up, you’ll never find your soulmate. You’ll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re going to fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself. Because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up. and most importantly, keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about. 
                 
4. People change. Time’s moving. Years go by, and I’m not the same girl you used to know.
                   
5. I’m told that fate makes fun of us, that it gives us nothing and promises everything. When happiness seems to be within our reach, we reach out and find ourselves like fools.
          
6. You reach a point in your life where you see the real from the fake, you realize that sometimes, people really do come in your life for

How to have strong personality

How to have a strong personality

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
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How to have a strong personality
Becoming more powerful and having a strong personality is a dream that many people have, however, with the vagueness of the steps required to reach this dream lots of people just give up and remain as they are.

While it’s extremely hard to define a strong personality (because the definition can differ from a person to a person) still there are few aspects that are common among all definitions of a strong personality.

According to common beliefs, a person who has a strong personality should be influential, powerful and a leader instead of a follower. In this article i will tell you how to have a strong personality by learning how to prevent others from affecting you.

How the people around us affect us

How can someone have a strong personality without first being himself?
Nowadays our society, friends and relatives expect us to behave in certain ways and to conform to their rules.

Under the effect of peer pressure lots of people become a “Yet another person” instead of being someone who is special or powerful. The following are simple examples of how the people around us affect us:

The way we dress: The clothes that we pick and the way we dress is highly affected by fashion and people’s expectations
The way we behave: As soon as you do anything unexpected or that is different you will find lots of people questioning your actions and even blaming you for it
Our choices: In my book How to make someone fall in love with you I explained how friend’s recommendation of a certain person can make him appear more attractive!! So even our choices can be affected by the people around us!!
Everything else: do this, do that, are you mad or even you are nuts are all kinds of expression that we encounter everyday that has the intention of letting us become another sheep in the herd
The first step to having a strong personality is to break free from the herd and have your own thoughts, ideas, beliefs, behavior and personality.

Becoming a stronger personality by learning how to be different

As soon as you try to be different lots of people who want to feel safe by finding that everyone is conforming to the norms will try to oppose you. In this section I will provide you with many techniques that can help you silence anyone who attempts to do that:

What’s the problem?: Weak people pull back as soon as someone warns them or even change their behavior to satisfy others while those who have strong personalities question the accuser, “What’s the problem in doing so?” , “I like doing so” or “It appeals to me” are all possible replies that shows that you have a strong personality”
Counter attack: People who have strong personalities surprise others by countering back instead of trying to defend themselves. “Why are you blaming me for making a mistake? Haven’t you done any mistakes in your life before??”
I like it and that’s the excuse: People who have a low self esteem try to find excuse for doing the things they are doing so that they please others. people who have a strong personality on other hand know that liking what they are doing or simply believing that its important for them is the excuse. “I do it because I like it, why would I do what you like instead?”
These are your rules I follow mine: People who lack confidence always follow the rules even if they make no sense. People who have strong personalities on the other hand follow their own set of rules. “Why shouldn’t I do this? I follow my own rules not yours”
Of course this is not all but it’s just the beginning. The first step to a strong personality is learning how to be yourself. Now move on to step two to continue.

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50 quotes to help you Let Go and Live

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“Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.”
―Ann Landers
Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t care about someone or something anymore; it’s just realizing that the only thing you truly have control over is yourself, right here, right now.  It’s a necessary process of adapting to the ever-changing realities of life – leaving behind the past to make way for the present.

Here are 50 quotes gathered from recent entries in our blog archive that will help you let go and live well.

As we grow older and wiser, we begin to realize what we need and what we need to leave behind.  Sometimes walking away is a step forward.
You will never achieve what you are capable of if you’re too attached to things you’re supposed to let go of.
Sometimes there are things in our lives that aren’t meant to stay.  Sometimes the changes we don’t want are the changes we need to grow.
Growth and change may be painful sometimes, but nothing in life is as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong.
The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to, and moving on with something you’re not.
Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what could be.
Don’t be afraid of change.  Change happens for a reason.  Roll with it.  It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.
It’s usually quite hard to let go and move on, but once you do, you’ll feel free and realize it was the best decision you’ve ever made.
Never let your fear decide your future.
Fear doesn’t exist anywhere except in your mind.  It’s difficult to follow your heart, but it’s a tragedy to let the lies of fear stop you.  (Read Daring Greatly.)
You can’t always wait for the perfect moment.  Sometimes you must let go and dare to do it because life is too short to wonder what could have been.
You’re not the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or a week ago.  You’re always growing.  Experiences don’t stop.  That’s life.
One of the most rewarding moments in life is when you finally find the courage to let go of what you can’t change.
Never force anything.  Give it your best shot, and then let it be.  If it’s meant to be, it will be.  Don’t hold yourself down with things you can’t control.
When you stop expecting people and situations to be perfect, you can start to appreciate them for who and what they are.
Live simply.  Love generously.  Speak truthfully.  Breathe deeply.  Do your best.  Leave everything else to the powers above you.
Giving up and moving on are two very different things.
Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting, it means you choose happiness over hurt.
Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak; sometimes it simply means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go and grow.
Stop focusing on how stressed you are and remember how blessed you are.  It could be so much worse.
Whatever is bringing you down, let it GO!  You don’t need that negativity in your life.  Keep calm and be positive.  Good things will happen.
Some people cannot stand that you’re moving on with your life and so they will try to drag your past to catch up with you.  Do not help them by acknowledging their behavior.  Keep moving forward.
No matter how you live, someone will be disappointed.  So just live your truth and be sure YOU aren’t the one who is disappointed in the end.
Love yourself!  Forgive yourself!  Accept yourself!  You are YOU and that’s the beginning and the end – no apologies, no regrets.
You are GOOD enough, SMART enough, FINE enough, and STRONG enough.  You don’t need other people to validate you; you’re already valuable.  (Read 1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently.)
One of the most freeing things we learn in life is that we don’t have to like everyone, everyone doesn’t have to like us, and it’s perfectly OK.
Try not to take things other people say about you too personally.  What they think and say is a reflection of them, not you.
If you care too much about what other people think, in a way, you will always be their prisoner.
Sometimes we expect more from others because we’d be willing to do that much for them.  Keep loving.  You’ll learn who’s worth it in the end.
Not everyone will appreciate what you do for them.  You have to figure out who’s worth your attention and who’s just taking advantage of you.
Saying yes to happiness means learning to say no to the people and things that hurt you.  Be wise enough to walk away from the negativity.
What you allow is what will continue.  It’s better to be lonely than allow negative people and their opinions derail you from your destiny.
If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down.  Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.
Just because someone has been in your life for many years, doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a point at which you finally decide to let go.
One of the most difficult tasks in life is removing someone from your heart.
You have to understand that people come and people go.  That’s life.  Stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago.
Sometimes we don’t forgive people because they deserve it.  We forgive them because they need it, because we need it, and because we cannot let go and move forward without it.
The first to apologize is the bravest.  The first to forgive is the strongest.  The first to move forward is the happiest.
Don’t cry over the past, it’s gone.  Don’t stress about the future, it hasn’t arrived.  Do your best to live in the NOW and make it beautiful.  (Read The Power of Now.)
Be wise enough to let go when you should and strong enough to hold on when you must.
Don’t let dumb little things break your happiness.  True wealth is the ability to experience and appreciate each moment for what it’s worth.
Life is too short to spend at war with yourself.  Practice acceptance and forgiveness.  Letting go of yesterday’s troubles is your first step towards happiness today.
Worry gives small things a big shadow.  In the end, you can either focus on what’s tearing you apart, or what’s holding you together.
Old worries are down payments on problems you may never have.  Let them go.  Today is a NEW beginning; take a deep breath and START AGAIN.
Smile, even when it feels like things are falling apart.  Smiling doesn’t always mean you’re happy; sometimes it simply means you’re strong.
There comes a time when you have to stop thinking about your mistakes and move on.  No regrets in life – just lessons that show you the way.
Remember the good times, be strong during tough times, love always, laugh often, live honestly, and be thankful for each new day.
You can’t let one bad moment spoil a bunch of good ones.  Don’t let the silly little dramas of each day get you down.
If you are diligent and patient, everything you truly need in your life will come to you at the right time.
Everything will fall into place eventually.  Until then, learn what you can, laugh often, live for the moments, and know it’s all worthwhile.
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trish says
January 12, 2014 at 3:54 pm

People grow through adversity, they find out what they are made of. It can be bitter at the time, but the sweetness comes later. Passing on positive experience comes from enduring the tough times. We learn how to cope and by growing through the tough times, the lessons we learn help us to see things in a different light. The stronger you get the smaller the trials seem to be. What is tough for some is a walk in the park for those who have already been there and have grown because of it.

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Pam says
January 18, 2014 at 9:05 pm

When things seem to be falling apart, they may actually be falling into place.

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Margot says
July 28, 2015 at 8:49 pm

I really love this one, Pam, thank you.

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Vishal says
January 21, 2014 at 11:28 pm

Excellent work. Great quotes.

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Jovah says
January 22, 2014 at 2:06 am

One of the most difficult tasks in life is removing someone from your heart.
You have to understand that people come and people go. That’s life. Stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago.

Thanks Marc and angel for a very productive tips about life.

Keep it Up!

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KC says
January 24, 2014 at 7:43 pm

“Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself”

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Helen Hughes says
January 27, 2014 at 4:14 pm

The only thing you get looking back is a stiff neck ~ my Dad

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OC Carlisle says
February 12, 2014 at 8:54 pm

My Mother had a favorite quote. Does anyone recognize this and can give me the source? Not as we take, but as we give. Not as we pray, but as we live. These are the things that make for peace from now till time shall cease. Thank you!

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Joe says
February 15, 2014 at 7:34 pm

Great collection! Very powerful.

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Lily Frechett says
February 17, 2014 at 1:58 pm

Where there is desire
There is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame
Someone’s bound to get burned
But just because it burns
Doesn’t mean you’re gonna die

You gotta get up and try, try, try

Read more: Pink – Try Lyrics | MetroLyrics

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Connie says
April 4, 2014 at 11:53 pm

“Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

“Being listened to is so much like being loved that most people can’t tell the difference.”

And…

“Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.”

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Hristiyan Nikolov says
May 5, 2014 at 8:09 am

#4 says it all. “Growth and change may be painful sometimes, but nothing in life is as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong.” – Don’t get stuck simply because you are afraid to move on. Have the dignity to let go and move on from people that are stopping you.

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Olivia says
May 13, 2014 at 12:13 am

These quotes really helped me, especially #39… it really hit me. Thanks Marc and Angel.

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Denise says
July 28, 2014 at 11:53 am

The things we go through in life only make us stronger and shape us to who we are today.

Women are like tea bags, you never know how strong they are until you put them in hot water.

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Eric says
September 25, 2014 at 6:06 am

A behavioral change can seem daunting, but why does it have to be harder than any other day to day choices you make. Some choices are made without a second thought as they are familiar. What’s amazing is to be able to acknowledge a behavior that you want to change and change it. We are never limited, we are never stuck. Our inherent God given power is unlimited. Have faith in yourself that you are already making the changes you feel you need to make to attract whatever and whomever, into your life. Believe in yourself.

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Mike says
December 7, 2014 at 10:13 pm

Things sometimes appear as if they will never get better – that I always won’t have a job and that I’ll be poor. Reading Marc and Angel gives me hope that things will change – and although life seems so unfair to me at times, I can live in the present each day and thank God for the good things I have, and that I have been fortunate through some dark times in the past, and that this will continue. And when things do come right – I’ve promised myself to stay humble and remember where I’ve come from and to look out for people who were in my position. There is nothing like brokenness and healing that comes if you allow it, and don’t let your heart harden.

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Mary Jo says
March 14, 2015 at 3:17 pm

Thank you for all of your inspiring quotes. They have helped me so much. I tell everyone about your blog With the hope of helping them with their journey. I’m in a very hard place right now too and sometimes I feel like I’m never going to get through this because it’s so heavy. I always look for your posts because something in there always seems to put me back on track. Sometimes, I feel like I’m all alone and there is No One that understands but reading your blog I can see that I’m doing alright after all and should just keep looking forward. Thank you Marc, Angel and everyone who has something to contribute

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leslie yakkel brunner says
March 21, 2015 at 8:36 am

THANKS!! An excellent collection of powerful quotes!!

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Josh says
June 12, 2015 at 3:59 am

Strength isn’t only what you can take before you break; It’s also what you can take after.

Faith in myself and strength are the only things keeping me going anymore. Please help, I am nearing the end.

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Ramy Sabbagh says
June 23, 2015 at 5:36 am

The wisest of men are those that charish and accept the limitations of their human mind ~Ramy Sabbagh

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Mary says
July 28, 2015 at 7:44 pm

The only good thing about bad times is, that they won’t last forever.. The only bad thing about good times is, that won’t last forever.

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One of my favorite lines from my favorite bands, Rascal Flatts – “I’ve been burdened with blame trapped in the past for too long, I’m moving on.”

I truly enjoy your site. Lots of inspiration!

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#44 – How to learn from your mistakes
You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you’ve made it. As soon as you start blaming other people (or the universe itself) you distance yourself from any possible lesson. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say “This is my mistake and I am responsible” the possibilities for learning will move towards you. Admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blame assignment and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes easily. They know progress accelerates when they do.

This advice runs counter to the cultural assumptions we have about mistakes and failure, namely that they are shameful things. We’re taught in school, in our families, or at work to feel guilty about failure and to do whatever we can to avoid mistakes. This sense of shame combined with the inevitability of setbacks when attempting difficult things explains why many people give up on their goals: they’re not prepared for the mistakes and failures they’ll face on their way to what they want. What’s missing in many people’s beliefs about success is the fact that the more challenging the goal, the more frequent and difficult setbacks will be. The larger your ambitions, the more dependent you will be on your ability to overcome and learn from your mistakes.

But for many reasons admitting mistakes is difficult. An implied value in many cultures is that our work represents us: if you fail a test, then you are a failure. If you make a mistake then you are a mistake (You may never have felt this way, but many people do. It explains the behavior of some of your high school or college friends). Like eggs, steak and other tasty things we are given letter grades (A, B, C, D and F) organizing us for someone else’s consumption: universities and employers evaluate young candidates on their grades, numbers based on scores from tests unforgiving to mistakes.

For anyone than never discovers a deeper self-identity, based not on lack of mistakes but on courage, compassionate intelligence, commitment and creativity, life is a scary place made safe only by never getting into trouble, never breaking rules and never taking the risks that their hearts tell them they need to take.

Learning from mistakes requires three things:

Putting yourself in situations where you can make interesting mistakes
Having the self-confidence to admit to them
Being courageous about making changes
This essay will cover all three. First we have to classify the different kinds of mistakes.

The four kinds of mistakes

One way to categorize mistakes is into these categories:

Stupid: Absurdly dumb things that just happen. Stubbing your toe, dropping your pizza on your neighbor’s fat cat or poking yourself in the eye with a banana.
Simple: Mistakes that are avoidable but your sequence of decisions made inevitable. Having the power go out in the middle of your party because you forgot to pay the rent, or running out of beer at said party because you didn’t anticipate the number of guests.
Involved: Mistakes that are understood but require effort to prevent. Regularly arriving late to work/friends, eating fast food for lunch every day, or going bankrupt at your start-up company because of your complete ignorance of basic accounting.
Complex: Mistakes that have complicated causes and no obvious way to avoid next time. Examples include making tough decisions that have bad results, relationships that fail, or other unpleasant or unsatisfying outcomes to important things.
(I’m sure you can come up with other categories: that’s fantastic, please share them here. But these are the ones you’re stuck with for the rest of this essay).

I’m leaving all philosophical questions about mistakes up to you. One person’s pleasure is another person’s mistake: decide for yourself. Maybe you enjoy stabbing your neighbor’s cat with a banana, who knows. We all do things we know are bad in the long term, but are oh so good in the short term. So regardless of where you stand, I’m working with you. However mistakes are defined in your personal philosophy this essay should help you learn from them.

Learning from mistakes that fall into the first two categories (Stupid & Simple) is easy, but shallow. Once you recognize the problem and know the better way, you should be able to avoid similar mistakes. Or in some cases you’ll realize that no matter what you do once in a while you’ll do stupid things (e.g. even Einstein stubbed his toes).

But these kinds of mistakes are not interesting. The lessons aren’t deep and it’s unlikely they lead you to learn much about yourself or anything else. For example compare these two mistakes

My use of dual part harmony for the 2nd trumpets in my orchestral composition for the homeless children’s shelter benefit concert overpowered the intended narrative of the violins.
I got an Oreo stuck in my underwear.
The kind of mistakes you make define you. The more interesting the mistakes, the more interesting the life. If your biggest mistakes are missing reruns of tv-shows or buying the wrong lottery ticket you’re not challenging yourself enough to earn more interesting mistakes.

And since there isn’t much to learn from simple and stupid mistakes, most people try to minimize their frequency and how much time we spend recovering from them. Their time is better spent learning from bigger mistakes. But if we habitually or compulsively make stupid mistakes, then what we really have is an involved mistake.

Involved mistakes

The third pile of mistakes, Involved mistakes, requires significant changes to avoid. These are mistakes we tend to make through either habit or nature. But since change is so much harder than we admit, we often suffer through the same mistakes again and again instead of making the tough changes needed to avoid them.

Difficultly with change involves an earlier point made in this essay. Some feel that to agree to change means there is something wrong with them. “If I’m perfect, why would I need to change?” Since they need to protect their idea of perfection, they refuse change (Or possibly, even refuse to admit they did anything wrong).

But this is a trap: refusing to acknowledge mistakes, or tendencies to make similar kinds of mistakes, is a refusal to acknowledge reality. If you can’t see the gaps, flaws, or weaknesses in your behavior you’re forever trapped in the same behavior and limitations you’ve always had, possibly since you were a child (When someone tells you you’re being a baby, they might be right).

Another challenge to change is that it may require renewing commitments you’ve broken before, from the trivial “Yes, I’ll try to remember to take the trash out” to the more serious “I’ll try to stop sleeping with all of your friends”. This happens in any environment: the workplace, friendships, romantic relationships or even commitments you’ve made to yourself. Renewing commitments can be tough since it requires not only admitting to the recent mistake, but acknowledging similar mistakes you’ve made before. The feelings of failure and guilt become so large that we don’t have the courage to try again.

This is why success in learning from mistakes often requires involvement from other people, either for advice, training or simply to keep you honest. A supportive friend’s, mentor’s or professional’s perspective on your behavior will be more objective than your own and help you identify when ytou’re hedging, breaking or denying the commitments you’ve made.

In moments of weakness the only way to prevent a mistake is to enlist someone else. “Fred, I want to play my Gamecube today but I promised Sally I wouldn’t. Can we hang out so you can make sure I don’t do it today?” Admitting you need help and asking for it often requires more courage than trying to do it on your own.

The biggest lesson to learn in involved mistakes is that you have to examine your own ability to change. Some kinds of change will be easier for you than others and until you make mistakes and try to correct them you won’t know which they are.

How to handle complex mistakes

The most interesting kinds of mistake are the last group: Complex mistakes. The more complicated the mistake you’ve made, the more patient you need to be. There’s nothing worse than flailing around trying to fix something you don’t understand: you’ll always make things worse.

I remember as a kid when our beloved Atari 2600 game system started showing static on the screen during games. The solution my brother and I came up with? Smack the machine as hard as we could (A clear sign I had the intellect for management). Amazingly this worked for awhile, but after weeks of regular beatings the delicate electronics eventually gave out. We were lazy, ignorant and impatient, and couldn’t see that our solution would work against us.

Professional investigators, like journalists, police detectives and doctors, try to get as many perspectives on situations as possible before taking action (Policemen use eyewitnesses, Doctors use exams and tests, scientific studies use large sample sizes). They know that human perception, including their own, is highly fallible and biased by many factors. The only way to obtain an objective understanding is to compare several different perspectives. When trying to understand your own mistakes in complex situations you should work in the same way.

Start by finding someone else to talk to about what happened. Even if no one was within 50 yards when you crashed your best friend’s BMW into your neighbor’s living room, talking to someone else gives you the benefit of their experience applied to your situation. They may know of someone that’s made a similar mistake or know a way to deal with the problem that you don’t.

But most importantly, by describing what happened you are forced to break down the chronology and clearly define (your recollection of) the sequence of events. They may ask you questions that surface important details you didn’t notice before. There may have been more going on (did the brakes fail? Did you swerve to avoid your neighbor’s daughter? etc.) than you, consumed by your emotions about your failure, realized.

If multiple people were involved (say, your co-workers), you want to hear each person’s account of what happened. Each person will emphasize different aspects of the situation based on their skills, biases, and circumstances, getting you closer to a complete view of what took place.

If the situation was/is contentious you may need people to report their stories independently – police investigators never have eyewitness collaborate. They want each point of view to be delivered unbiased by other eyewitnesses (possibly erroneous) recollections. Later on they’ll bring each account together and see what fits and what doesn’t.

An illustrative example comes from the book Inviting disasters Inviting Disaster: Lessons from the edge of technology. It tells the story of a floating dormitory for oil workers in the North Sea that rolled over during the night killing over 100 people. The engineering experts quickly constructed different theories and complex explanations that focused on operational errors and management decisions.

All of these theories were wrong. It was eventually discovered through careful analysis that weeks earlier a crack in a support structure had been painted over, instead of being reported and repaired. This stupid, simple and small mistake caused the superstructure to fail, sinking the dormitory. Without careful analysis the wrong conclusion would have been reached (e.g. smacking the Atari) and the wrong lesson would have been learned.

Until you work backwards for moments, hours or days before the actual mistake event, you probably won’t see all of the contributing factors and can’t learn all of the possible lessons. The more complex the mistake, the further back you’ll need to go and the more careful and open-minded you need to be in your own investigation. You may even need to bring in an objective outsider to help sort things out. You’d never have a suspect in a crime lead the investigation, right? Then how can you completely trust yourself to investigate your own mistakes?

Here some questions to ask to help your investigation:

What was the probable sequence of events?
Were their multiple small mistakes that led to a larger one?
Were there any erroneous assumptions made?
Did we have the right goals? Were we trying to solve the right problem?
Was it possible to have recognized bad assumptions earlier?
Was there information we know now that would have been useful then?
What would we do differently if in this exact situation again?
How can we avoid getting into situations like this? (What was the kind of situation we wanted to be in?)
Was this simply unavoidable given all of the circumstances? A failure isn’t a mistake if you were attempting the impossible.
Has enough time passed for us to know if this is a mistake or not?
As you put together the sequence of events, you’ll recognize that mistakes initially categorized as complex eventually break down into smaller mistakes. The painted over crack was avoidable but happened anyway (Stupid). Was there a system in place for avoiding these mistakes? (Simple). Were there unaddressed patterns of behavior that made that system fail? (Involved). Once you’ve broken a complex mistake down you can follow the previous advice on making changes.

Humor and Courage

No amount of analysis can replace your confidence in yourself. When you’ve made a mistake, especially a visible one that impacts other people, it’s natural to question your ability to perform next time. But you must get past your doubts. The best you can do is study the past, practice for the situations you expect, and get back in the game. Your studying of the past should help broaden your perspective. You want to be aware of how many other smart, capable well meaning people have made similar mistakes to the one you made, and went on to even bigger mistakes, I mean successes, in the future.

One way to know you’ve reached a healthy place is your sense of humor. It might take a few days, but eventually you’ll see some comedy in what happened. When friends tell stories of their mistakes it makes you laugh, right? Well when you can laugh at your own mistakes you know you’ve accepted it and no longer judge yourself on the basis of one single event. Reaching this kind of perspective is very important in avoiding future mistakes. Humor loosens up your psychology and prevents you from obsessing about the past. It’s easy to make new mistakes by spending too much energy protecting against the previous ones. Remember the saying “a man fears the tiger that bit him last, instead of the tiger that will bite him next”.

So the most important lesson in all of mistake making is to trust that while mistakes are inevitable, if you can learn from the current one, you’ll also be able to learn from future ones. No matter what happens tomorrow you’ll be able to get value from it, and apply it to the day after that. Progress won’t be a straight line but if you keep learning you will have more successes than failures, and the mistakes you make along the way will help you get to where you want to go.

The learning from mistakes checklist

Accepting responsibility makes learning possible.
Don’t equate making mistakes with being a mistake.
You can’t change mistakes, but you can choose how to respond to them.
Growth starts when you can see room for improvement.
Work to understand why it happened and what the factors were.
What information could have avoided the mistake?
What small mistakes, in sequence, contributed to the bigger mistake?
Are there alternatives you should have considered but did not?
What kinds of changes are required to avoid making this mistake again?What kinds of change are difficult for you?
How do you think your behavior should/would change in you were in a similar situation again?
Work to understand the mistake until you can make fun of it (or not want to kill others that make fun).
Don’t over-compensate: the next situation won’t be the same as the last.
References

Inviting Disaster: Lessons from the edge of technology by James Chiles. A series of magazine style essays about major technological disasters in the last 100 years. Includes the Challenge shuttle, Apollo 13, & Three mile island.

The Logic of Failure by Dietrich Dorner. An analysis of decision making mistakes in complex environments. More academic than Inviting disaster, but also more prescriptive.

You can read this essay in Ukranian here.

[First posted, July 17 2005]

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107 Responses to “#44 – How to learn from your mistakes”

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December 19, 2012 at 3:19 am. Permalink.
This article is something that will help me with my class assignment. It helped me to better understand another aspect of this topic. Thanks.

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Phillip
January 18, 2013 at 3:47 am. Permalink.
Mistake, I mean typo in the last paragraph, second sentence…. “No matter when happens tomorrow you’ll be able to get value from it,”. See it? If you had a bat in the cave I’d tell you that too. I’ve enjoyed reading your essays while enduring my sleepers-block this morning. Inspiring work indeed!

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jeesha
February 2, 2013 at 2:54 am. Permalink.
I did a big mistake…repeated a 1001 times and now I have lost my best friend forever… :o(

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Dhimsy
March 23, 2013 at 10:24 am. Permalink.
Excellent presentation of the mistakes, that we make. You Hv mentioned that accepting your mistake, then trying to rectifying them. One theory also says that when you want to rectify your mistake, you must start it right away, once you say you will try, then 50% of your mind has decided not to rectify. So once you realise, just jump to rectify it.

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Amandah
April 2, 2013 at 6:13 pm. Permalink.
Poking myself in the eye with a banana? That’s easy. Poking myself in the eye with an egg takes skill!
But the way you portray each kind of mistake is a real eye opener. I always try to fix mistakes that I’ve made, but I never took the time to learn from them. Thank you for this. I have learned a lot.

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Huma
April 30, 2013 at 3:00 pm. Permalink.
thank you so much for posting this..totally helped. im going through a lot right now (to be specific, it’s all academic related). i just can’t seem to be grasping college at the moment (even though i should have graduated LAST year). i just want to be done because i havent had a break in so long and im exhausted. 2 days ago, i made another huge mistake and i even knew i was making it and now it’s killing me. i’ll probably taking my math class..all.over.again. thanks once again for posting this..made me feel better somewhat.

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Robin Montagne
May 7, 2013 at 5:33 pm. Permalink.
I am sharing this with all of my Facebook friends! What an inspiring article. If everyone thought this way, making mistakes wouldn’t be so difficult.

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No_Mercy
June 23, 2013 at 11:01 am. Permalink.
Yes you are right. It is an awesome Essay ever.

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asad
September 1, 2013 at 7:49 am. Permalink.
this is good for somalis people especially those teenagers who has got no idea how to apologize others

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No_Mercy
June 23, 2013 at 11:00 am. Permalink.
Guys, The essay which was given to me was about mistakes not about how to get lesson from them. So, from where I should write essay on mistakes? (Help)

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Tipss
July 19, 2013 at 6:20 am. Permalink.
Great post. Mistakes are one of those things that are a hassle to deal with but are needed in order to advance and grow.

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Yousaf shah
January 4, 2014 at 8:50 am. Permalink.
this article really help me in making my assignment

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sibongiseni johannes
January 20, 2014 at 10:17 am. Permalink.
OoooooommmmmmmmmGggggggggggggg u hv jst hlpd me with my essay assignment nd ts 400 to 450 words nd ts the essay z abt hw 2 learn frm year mistakes

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William Siong
March 29, 2014 at 11:24 pm. Permalink.
Hi Scott, an excellent article about Mistakes, which is why I hyperlinked it from my article.

You might want to check out the URL as there are 2 empty spaces in your link.
http://scottberkun.com/essays/44-how-to-learn-%20%20from-your-mistakes/

Cheers and have a great day!
William Siong

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Dan S
January 1, 2015 at 1:39 pm. Permalink.
If failure is not an option….
https://www.google.com/search?q=“if+failure+is+not+an+option”

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[…] an essay on the subject, author and speaker Scott Berkun notes, “Admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible […]

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[…] are the most important thing, as I want to live a long life of attempting to do interesting things, no matter what happens. So I’m as surprised as you are to be in whatever position you think I’m in. The fact […]

Mistakes Are The Greatest Teacher « Gifted Slacker says:
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[…] – Scott Berkun […]

The Negotiation Guru » 10 Mistakes You Should Avoid In Your Negotiations: A Guide for Business Executives, Entrepreneurs and Lawyers says:
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[…] We all make mistakes. Mistakes are inevitable. What makes mistakes worse is failure to correct your own mistakes. It is hard to imagine any negotiation without any mistakes. Once you make a mistake in your negotiation, correct it immediately. Do not allow your mistakes affect you in anyway. While making mistakes is good, repeating mistakes is definitely not. Apart from correcting your own mistakes, learn from the mistakes. […]

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It’s Great to Learn from Your Mistakes…Once! | Brainzooming says:
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[…] look at various types of mistakes and the personal perspective and processes to address them, check out this essay from Scott Berkun. And while you

My biggest mistakes « Scott Berkun says:
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[…] do try very hard to learn from them, but the ones listed below have stuck with me more than others. In some cases they are mistakes […]

Scott Berkun reminds us of the value of learning from mistakes « John Caddell’s blog says:
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[…] in addition to being a great speaker and blogger, is a first-class mistake learner. His post “How to Learn From Your Mistakes” was an early entry in the Mistake Bank. It’s gratifying to see that he still […]

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[…] from your mistake and never have to go through it again. Think of it as investing in your future.Read this guy’s essay on the same topic if you’re interested in more detailed information on this topic. Posted by […]

Lessons Learnt #1: Always Triple-Check Things before Ordering « ZPE’s Random Encounters says:
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[…] Scott Berkun’s article “#44 – How to learn from your mistake”. […]

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[…] #44 – How to learn from your mistakes, Scott Berkun – Comprehensive article about making mistakes. […]

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[…] Scott Berkun, a former Microsoftie and bestselling author, further explains this thought as well as the four kinds of mistakes. […]

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[…] instance, she leads by example admitting easily her mistake and thus contributes largely to nurture a High Trust / […]

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[…] all mistakes of course carry the same weight and you can classify them in various ways. There are stupid ones, like insulting the boss or, knocking coffee all over your […]

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[…] all mistakes of course carry the same weight and you can classify them in various ways. There are stupid ones, like insulting the boss or, knocking coffee all over your […]

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[…] they never learn how to slay them. If someone happens upon success, they don’t learn how to persist through setbacks. If someone meets their partner when they’re a teenager, they don’t learn the same […]

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February 4, 2011 at 11:31 am
[…] #44 – How to … many people’s … so large that we don’t have the courage to try again. This is why success in learning from mistakes often requires involvement from other people … very hard to learn … […]

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[…] “You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you’ve made it. As soon as you start blaming other people (or the universe itself) you distance yourself from any possible lesson. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say “This is my mistake and I am responsible” the possibilities for learning will move towards you. Admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blame assignment and towards understanding.” – Scott Berkun, #44 […]

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October 28, 2011 at 5:06 am
[…] People don’t laugh at failure, they cheer for it. So don’t be embarrassed or sad if you fail, embrace it, learn from it, and move on! Need help learning from your mistakes? Check out these tips from Scott Berkun’s blog: […]

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[…] In Part 3, I will discuss where and how you can gain knowledge and experience. But we also learn by making mistakes. Preferably in a safe environment. We learn from feedback and evaluations. In the agile world, […]

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December 6, 2011 at 5:40 pm
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[…] Ready? You are wrong. You are wrong much of the time. I’m wrong too and some of what I write in this essay will be wrong (except for

ፍልሰታ

ፍልሰታ ለማርያም
በስመ አብ ወወልድ ወመንፈስ ቅዱስ አሐዱ አምላክ አሜን። 

ትርጉም 

ፍልሰታ ዝብል ቃል ‘ፈለሰ’ ካብ ዝብል ናይ ግእዝ ግሲ ዝወጸ ኮይኑ፤ ካብ ሓደ ቦታ ናብ ካልእ ቦታ ምግዓዝ፡ ሃገርካ ሰፈርካ ገዲፍካ ምኻድ ምስዳድ ምፍላስ ማለት እዩ። ፍልሰታ ለማርያም ክንብል ከሎና’ውን ሥጋ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ካብ ጌቴሰማኒ ናብ ገነት ምፍላሱ፡ ዳኅራይ’ውን ካብ ትሕቲ ዕፀ ሕይወት ናይ ገነት ምፍላሱ ዘመልክት እዩ። ብሓጺሩ ካብ ምድሪ ናብ ሰማይ ምድያብ ወይ ምዕራጉ፡ ካብዚ ሥጋዊ ዓለም ናብቲ መንፈሳዊ ዓለም ምስግጋሩ፡ ካብዚ ሓላፋይ ዓለም ናብቲ ዘይሓልፍ ዓለም ምሕላፉ ዘመልክት እዩ። 

ጾመ ፍልሰታ ክንብል ከሎና’ውን ሓዋርያት ናይ ኣዴና ሥጋ ናበይ ከምዝፈለሰን ከምዝተቐብረን ስለዘይፈለጡ እግዚአብሔር ክገልጸሎም ምእንቲ ብዛዕባ ሥጋ ኣዴናን ትንሣኤኡን ዕርገቱን ዝጾምዎ ጾም እዩ።

ዜና መዋዕል 
ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ካብ ኣቡኣ ኢያቄም ኣዴኣ ሐና “እም ሊባኖስ ትወጽእ መርዓት” ተባሂሉ ብመሠረት ዝተነግረላ ትንቢት ፯ ነሓሰ ተጸኒሳ ባሕቲ ግንቦት ኣብ ኣኽራናት ሊባኖስ ተወልደት። ጓል መብጽዓ ኸኣ እያ። ዝተወለደትሉ ዘመን ኸኣ ፲፭ ዓመት ቅድሚ ልደተ ክርስቶስ እዩ። 

ኣዴና ኣብ ቤት ኣቡኣ ፫ ዓመት ኣብ ቤተ መቅደስ ኸኣ ፲፪ ዓመት፡ ምስ ወዳ ኸኣ ፴፫ ዓመትን ፫ ወርሕን፡ ምስ ዮሐንስ ወልደ ነጐድጓድ ኸኣ ዳርጋ ፲፭ ዓመት ተቐሚጣ፤ ብጠቕላላ ኣብ መበል ፷፬ ዓመት ኣብዚ ምድሪ ድኅሪ ምንባራ ፳፩ ጥሪ ከባቢ ፶ ዓ.ም. ካብዚ ዓለም ብሞት ተፈልየት። 

ትንቢት 
ነቢያት ኣቐዲሞም ብዛዕባ ዕረፍትን ትንሣኤን ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ብምሳሌን ብምሥጢርን ተዛሪቦም ነይሮም። ከም ኣብነት ቅዱስ ዳዊት “ተንሥእ እግዚኦ ውስተ ዕረፍትከ፡ አንተ ወታቦተ መቅደስከ” (መዝ ፻፴፩፥፰) (ኦ እግዚአብሔር ንስኻን ታቦት መቅደስካን ተንሥእ፡ ናብ ዕረፍትኻ ንዓ” ኢሉ ተንቢዩ ነይሩ። ትርጉሙ ኸኣ ኦ ፈጣሪየይ እግዚአብሔር ምእመናን ናብ እተዕርፈሉ መንግሥተ ሰማያት ታቦት መቅደስካ ዝኾነት ድንግል ማርያም ሒዝካ ተንሥእ ክብል ከሎ እዩ። እዚ ኸኣ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ከም ትንሣኤ ወዳ ከምዝተንሠአት ዘመልክት እዩ። ኣማናዊት ታቦት ዝተባህለት መኅደሪኡ ንሳ ስለዝኾነት። 

ጥበበኛ ሰሎሞን’ውን “ፍትወይሲ፡ ኣቲ ፍትውተይ፡ ተንሥኢ፡ ጽብቕተየ፡ ንዒ፤ እንሆ፡ ክረምቲ ሓሊፉ፡ ዝናም ዛርዩ፡ ተወዲኡ። ዕምባባታት ኣብ ምድሪ ተራእየ፡ ጊዜ መዝሙር በጽሔ። ድምጺ ባሬቶ ኸኣ ኣብ ምድርና ተሰምዔ። በለስ ፍሬኡ ጐጐበ፡ ተኽሊ ወይኒ ዓምቢቡስ መኣዛኡ የውጽእ ኣሎ። ኣቲ ፍትውተይ፡ ተንሥኢ፡ ጽብቕተየ፡ ንዒ።” ክብል ናይ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ዕረፍትን ትንሣኤኣ ዝምልከት ነገር ጠቒሱ ኣሎ። (መኃ ፪፥፲-፲፫) 

ብመሠረት እዚ ትንቢታዊ ምሳሌ ኸኣ እቲ ‘ፍትውተይ ጽብቕተይ’ እናበለ ዝጸውዐ ጐይታናን መድኃኒናኒ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ እዩ። ትጽዋዕ ዘላ’ውን ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም እያ። እቲ ክረምቲ ሓሊፉ ዝተባህለ ኸኣ እቲ ኣብ መዋዕል ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያምን ወዳን ዝሓለፈ መከራን ስደትን ሓዘንን እዩ። እዚ ኸኣ ካብ ምውላዳ ጀሚሩ ክሳብ ዕረፍታ ኣብ ልዕሊኣ ንዝነበረ ተጻብኦ ኣይሁድ ዘመልክት እዩ። አብ ቤተ መቅደስ’ውን ኣረጋዊ ስምዖን ‘ኣብ ነፍስኺ ሰይፊ ክኣቱ እዩ’ ኢልዋ ንዝነበረ ነገር ዘዛምድ እዩ። ከምቲ ዝተገልጸ’ውን ንሳ ብናይ ሓዘን ፍላጻ ልባ ዝተወግኣትሉ ዘመን ሓሊፉ ናይ ክርስቶስ ሕማሙ ሞቱ ቤዛነቱ ከምዝተፈጸመ ዘርእይ እዩ። ዕምባባታት ኣብ ምድሪ ተራእየ ኢሉ ከምዝመሰሎ፡ ትንሣኤኡ ኣብ ምድሪ ተገሊጹ፤ ተሰቢኹ ንማለት ብምሳሌ ዝገለጾ ኸኣ እዩ። ብድምፂ ባሬቶ መሲሉ ኸኣ ድምፂ ሓዋርያት ኣብ ኵላ ምድሪ ከምዝተሰመዐን ከምዝበጸሐን ዝገልጽ እዩ። ቅዱስ ዳዊት’ውን ነዚ ኣመልኪቱ “ውስተ ኵሉ ምድር ወፅአ ነገሮሙ። ወእስከ አጽናፈ ዓለም በጽሐ ነቢቦሙ” (ድምፆም ናብ ኲሉ ምድሪ፡ ቃላቶም ድማ ክሳዕ ወሰን ዓለም ይወጽእ ኣሎ፡) ኢሉ ከምዝተነበዮ ማለት እዩ። (መዝ ፲፰፥፬) 

“በለስ ፍሬኡ ጐጐበ፡ ተኽሊ ወይኒ ዐምቢቡስ መኣዛኡ የውጽእ ኣሎ።” ምባሉ’ውን እቲ እተዘርአ ቃል፡ ዝተሰብከ ትምህርትን ፍረ ክርስትና ኣፍርዩ፤ ኣብ ምእመናን’ውን ሰናይ ግብሪን (ፍረ) መንፈሳዊ ተጋድሎን ክረኣይ ጀመረ። ኣብ ኵሉ ዓለም ኸኣ ኣብያተ ክርስቲያን ተተኺሎም፡ ብሃይማኖት ምዕንባቦምን ፍረ ምሃቦምን መዓዛ ምግባርን ምቕራብን ድኅሪ ምጅማሮም ኣዴና ንኸተዕርፍ ብጐይታ ከምዝተጸወዐት ዘረድእ ድንቂ ትንቢት እዩ። 

ታሪኽ 
ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ወላዲተ ኣምላክ ብ ፳፩ ጥሪ ኣብ መበል ፷፬ ዕድሚኣ ከም ዘዕረፈት ብንጹር ኣብ ታሪኽ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ተመዝጊቡ ኣሎ። ኵሉ እኳ ሞተ ሥጋ ዝመውት እኳ እንተኾነ፡ ሞተ ማርያም ግና ንኵሉ ዘድንቕ እዩ ከምዝተባህለ ወላዲተ አምላክ ክነሳ ንሳውን ከተዕርፍ ኣምላኽ ቅዱስ ፍቓዱ ኮነ። 

ሓዋርያት ገኒዞም ክቐብርዋ ክኸዱ ከለዉ፡ ጌተሰማኒ ከይበጽሑ ከለዉ እቶም ወትሩ ዝጻብዕዋ ኣይሁድ ሕጂ’ውን ሸለል ከይበሉ ብእከይ ቅንኢ ተላዓዒሎም ሥግኣ ከቃጽሉ ተኣኪቦም መጹ። እዚ ዝገበረሉ ምኽንያት ድማ ንሓዋርያት “ቅድም ንወዳ ቀቢሮሞ ከብቕዑ፡ ኣብ ሣልስቱ ተንሢኡ፡ ኣብ ፵ መዓልቱ ናብ ሰማይ ዓሪጉ፡ ዳግማይ ኸኣ ክምለስ እዩ ኢሎም ንሕዝቢ ብዙኅ ኣታሊሎሞን ወሲዶሞን፣ ሕጂ ድማ ስቕ እንተበልናዮም ነዚኣ’ውን ከም ወዳ ወሲዶም ኣብ ዘይንፈልጦ ኣንቢሮም ንሳ’ውን ተንሢኣ እናበሉ ክህውኹና ክነብሩ እዮም” ካብ ዝብል እከይ ሓሳብ’ዩ። ብመሠረት ምኽሮም ኸኣ ታውፋንያ ዝተባህለ ሓደ ካብቶም ኣይሁድ ጎበዝ ሰብኣይ ንሥጋ ቅድስት ማርያም ምእንቲ ከንድዳ ዓራታ ክግምጥላ ኢሉ ናብቲ ሓዋርያት ተሸኪሞሞ ዝነበሩ ዓራት ብድፍረት ቀረበ። ነቲ ዓራት ምስ ሓዞ፡ ቅዱስ ገብርኤል ካብ ሰማይ ወሪዱ ንታውፋንያ ኣእዳዉ ቆረጾ ኣብቲ ዓራት ድማ ተንጠልጢለን ተረፋ። ብድኅሪ’ዚ ምስ ዮሓንስ ገይሩ ብደመና ተነጢቓ ኣብ ገነት የእትዩ ኣብ ትሕቲ ዕፀ ሕይወት ኣንበራ። ዕርገታውን ብምስጋና መላእኽቲ ብስግደት ሰማእታት ዝተሰነየ እዩ ነይሩ። ታውፋንይ ግና ብዝፈጸሞ ክፉእ ግብሪ ተጣዒሱ ናብ ኣዴና ስለዝተማኅጸነ ብኅቡእ ተኣምራት ኣእዳዉ ናብ ናይ ቀደመ ሰፈረን ተመሊሰናሉ እየን። (ስንክሳር ዘጥር ፳፩) 

ድኅሪ’ዚ ሓዋርያት ካብኦም ብምፍላያ ጥራይ ዘይኮነ ኣበይ ከም ዘላን ኣበይ ከም ዝኣተወትን’ውን ስለ ዘይፈለጡ ብብዙኅ ሓዘንን ብኽያትን ድኅሪ ምጽናሕ፡ ቅዱስ ዮሓንስ ካብ ኣዴና በረኸት ተቐቢሉ ካብ ገነት ምስ ተመልሰ ከመይ ኮነት ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ምስ በልዎ፡ ኣብ ትሕቲ ዕፀ ሕይወት ከም ዘላ ነገሮም። ዮሓንስ ርእይዋ ንሕና ከይረኣናያ ብምባል ብመንፈሳዊ ቅንኢን ፍቕርን ተበጊሶም በቲ ሓደ ባዕሉ ዮሓንስ ብዝሓበሮም ኸኣ በቲ ካልእ ኣብ መጀመርያ ነሓሰ ጾም ጀመሩ። ንኽልተ ሰሙን ምስ ጾሙ ኣብ መወዳእታ ናይታ ካልአይቲ ሰሙን ሰንበት መዓልቲ ጐይታ ባዕሉ ንሥጋ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ኣምጺኡ ሃቦም፤ ንሳቶም ኸኣ ብዓቢይ ዝማሬን ውዳሴን ከምኡውን ብጽኑዕ ምህለላ ኣብቲ ዝተዳለወ መካነ ዕረፍቲ ኣብ ጌተሰማኔ ቀበርዋ። (ስንክሳር ዘነሐሰ ፲፮) 

ኣብ ሣልስታ ሠሉስ መዓልቲ ሓዋርያ ቅዱስ ቶማስ ካብ’ቲ ብስብከተ ወንጌል ከይዱዎ ዝነበረ ሃገረ ስብከት ብደመና ተጻዒኑ እናተመልሰ ከሎ፡ ብ፲፮ ነሓሰ እግዝእትነ ማርያም ካብ መቓብር ተፈልያ ተንሢኣ መላእክት ብግርማ ናብ ሰማይ ከዕርግዋ ከለዉ ከኣ ኣብ መገዲ ኣብ ሰማይ ተገልጸትሉ። ኵሎም ሓዋርያት ዕርገታ ርእዮም ንሱ ዝተረፈ ኸኣ መሰሎ። ሕጂ’ውን ትንሣኤ ቅድስት ድንግል ከይረኣየ ዕርገታ ብምርካቡ “ብመጀመርያ ናይ ወድኺ ትንሣኤ ሕጂ ኸኣ ናትኪ ትንሣኤ ከይረኣኹ ተሪፈ” ብምባል ብጓሂ “ወፈቀደ ይደቅ እምደመናሁ” ከም ዝበለ ካብቲ ተጻዒንሉ ዝነበረ ደመና ክወድቅ ክሳብ ዝደሊ ኮነ። ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ግን ኣይትሕዘን ምኽንያቱ እዚ ምርኣይ’ዚ እንትርፎ ንዓኻ ንካልእ ኣይተዋህበን ኢላ ኣጸናንዓቶ፤ መግነዚኣ ሂባ ድማ ፍልሰታ ከበስሮም ናብቶም እኩባት ሓዋርያት ኣፋነወቶ። 

ሽዑ ሓዋርያ ቅዱስ ቶማስ ናብ ሓዋርያት ከይዱ ከም ዘይፈለጠ ኮይኑ “ጒዳይ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያምሲ እንታይ ኮነ ገለ ነገር’ዶ ኣይረኸብኩምን” በሎም። ንሳቶም ድማ እቲ ነገር ዘርዚሮም ሓበርዎ፤ ሓዋርያ ቅዱስ ቶማስ ግና “እዚ ከመይ ኢሉ ክኸውን ይኽእል፡ መቓብራ ከፊትኩም ሥጋኣ እንተዘይኣርኣኹምኒ ኣይኣምንን’የ” በሎም። ሊቀ ሐዋርያት ቅዱስ ጴጥሮስ ብተግሣጽ “ንስኻ ኵሉ ግዜ ማንታ ዝልቡ ተጠራጣሪ ኢኻ ቅድም ትንሣኤ ክርስቶስ እናተነገርናካ፡ ኣእዳው እንተዘይሓዝኩ ዝተወግአ ጎኑ ከይዳህሰስኩ ኣይምንን ኢልካስ ሕጂ’ውንዶ ከምኡ ትብል ኣለኻ” በሎ። ቅዱስ ቶማስ ግና ናይ ልቡ ኣብ ልቡ ገይሩ ሥጋኣ ከርእይዎ ግድን በሎም።፣ ቅዱስ ጴጥሮስ ድማ እናሓዘነ ሥጋኣ ከርእዮ ምስ ሓዋርያት ናብ መቓብራ ወሰዶ። እንተኾነ ተንሢኣ ስለዝነበረት መቓብራ ከፊቱ ሥጋኣ ክረኽቦ ኣይከኣለን። በዚ ነገር ተሰናቢዶም ከለዉ፤ ሽዑ ሓዋርያ ቅዱስ ቶማስ ፍልሰታ ኣዴና ከምዝረኣየ ኣበሰሮም፡ መረጋገጺ ድማ እታ ዝተገንዘትላ ቅናታ ሃቦም። ንበረኸት ድማ ነቲ ሰበን ቆራሪጾም ተኸፋፊሎም ነናብ ሃገረ ስብከቶም ከይዶም። 

ስለዚ ኸኣ ፲፮ ነሓሰ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ነቢይ ዳዊት “ተንሥእ እግዚኦ አንተ ወታቦተ መቅደስከ” ኢሉ ኣቐዲሙ ከም ዝተዛረቦ እምኒ ኣልዕሉለይ መቓብር ክፈቱለይ ከይበለት ማኅተም መቓብር ፈቲሓ ልክዕ ‘ከም ትንሣኤ ወዳ’ ካብ መቓብር ተፈልያ ዝዓረገልትሉ ክቡር መዓልቲ’ዩ። 

ከም’ቲ ሓዋርያ ቅዱስ ቶማስ ትንሣኤኣን ዕርገታን ንከርእዮም ድማ ኣብ ዓመታ ከምቲ ናይ ቅድሚኡ ክልተ ሱባኤ ኣተዉ። ጾሎቶም ተቐቢሉ ኸኣ ንኣዴና መንበር፡ ንቅድስ ጴጥሮስ ንፍቅ ካህን፡ ንቅዱስ እስጢፋኖስ ኸኣ ገባሬ ሰናይ ዲያቆን ገይሩ ቀዲሱ ንኵሎም ድኅሪ ምቝራቡ ኸኣ ዕርገታ ኣርኣዮም። ቅድሚኡ ዘይተራእየ ድማ ኣብዚ መዓልቲ ዓቢ ሓጎስን ፍስሓን ኮነ። 

ጾመ ፍልሰታን ፍሉይነቱን 
እዚ ጾም እዚ ካብቶም ሸውዓተ ኣጽዋማት እቲ ሓደ እዩ። ሕዝብና ንኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ብዘለዎ ልዕል ዝበለ ኽብርን ፍቕርን እዚ ጾም’ዚ ብፍሉይ ክጾሞ ኢና እንርእዮ። እዚ ኸኣ ሕጻን ዓቢይ ከይፈለየ ኵሎም ምእመናን ብዝደመቐን ልዑል ተሳትፎ ብዘለዎ ኣገባብን ክጾምዎ ኢና እንርኢ። 

ሕጻናት ኸኣ ምስቲ ኣብዚ ጊዜ እዚ ትምህርቲ (ዘመናዊ) ዘይምህላዉ ኣብ ጾም ይኹን ኣብ ቅዳሴ ከምኡውን ካብ ካልእ ጊዜ ብዝተፈለየ ቅዱስ ሥግኡን ክቡር ደሙን ኣብ ምቕባል ዘለዎም ተሳትፎ ልዕል ዝበለ እዩ። እቲ ካልእ ብፍሉይ ኣብ ቀጽሪ ቤተ ክርስቲያን ዝረአ ኸኣ ሕጻናትን ንኣሽቱ ኣወዳትን ኣዋልድን ብመትሓዚ ማይ (ብጃሎን) ካብ በቤቶም ማይ ብምምላእ ኣንጊሆም ናብ ቤተ ክርስቲያን እናዘመሩ ዝኸድዎ ደስ ዘብል ኣገባብ እዩ። እቶም ሕጻናት ኸኣ ጸሎቶም ኣብጺሖም ብካህናት ድኅሪ ምብራኽ በቲ ዘምጽእዎ ማይ ኣብ ዕሙራት ኣግራባትን ከውልታትን ብምዃን ክሕጸቡ ምርኣይ ክሳብ ክንደይ ፍቕሪ ኣዴና ከምዝሰረጾም ዘርእይ እዩ። “ህየንተ አበውኪ ተወልዱ ለኪ ደቂቅ” (ኣብ ክንዲ ኣቦታትኪ ውሉድ ተወሊዶሙልኪ) ዝብል ቃል እግዚአብሔር ዘዘካኽር ኸኣ እዩ። (መዝ ፵፬፥፲፮) 

መንእሰያትን ዲያቆናትን ኸኣ ካብ ካልእ ጊዜ ብዝተፈለየ ማለት ዝያዳ ኣብዚ ጊዜ እዚ ነዊሕ ሰዓታት ክጾሙን ክጽልዩን ክሰግዱን መዓልታዊ ከቕድሱን ብብዝኂ ይረኣዩ እዮም። ኣብ ክንዲ ናይ ኣጽዋማት ምግቢ’ውን ጥረ ምረ እናበልዑን፡ ካብ ዓራቶም ወሪዶም ኣብ መሬት ብምድቃስ ዝጾምዎ’ውን ኣለዉ። ገሊኦም’ውን ኣብ ገዳማት ብምኻድ ነቲ ክልተ ሰሙን ብሱባኤ ከሕልፍዎ ዝምረጹሉ ጊዜ’ውን እዚ ጾም ፍልሰታ እዚ እዩ። ብሓቂ ድማ እዚ ጾም’ዚ ናይ በረኸትን ጸጋን ጾም ምዃኑ ብጋህዲ ዝረኣዩ እዋን ኸኣ እዩ። 

እቶም ዓበይትን ብፍላይ ኸኣ ኣብ ገዳማት ዘሎ ሥርዓተ ጾም ዝምስጥን መናንያንን መነኮሳትን ብሓቂ ምድራውያን መላእኽቲ ኮይኖም ብዝያዳ ዝርከቡሉ እዩ። ጸሎቶም ኣይጋደፈና። 

ምኽንያት በዓል 
ከምቲ ኣቐድም ኣቢሉ ዝተጠቕሰ፡ ሓዋርያት ዝጾምዎ ጾም ኣብ ክልተ ሰሙኑ ይፈጸም ደኣ እምበር ድኅሪ ሥጋኣ ተቐቢሎም ምቕባሮም ትንሣኤኣን ዕርገታን ኣብ ሣልስት እዩ ተፈጺሙ። ስለዚ ኸኣ ቅድስት ቤተ ክርስቲያን ሓዋርያት ንዝጾምዎ ክልተ ሰሙንን ከምኡውን ትንሣኤኣ ክሳብ ዝኾነሉ ዕለት ብጠቕላላ ደሚራ ክጽወም ሥርዓት ሠሪዓ ኣላ። በዚ መሠረት ኸኣ ምእመናን ናይ ሓዋርያት ኣብነት ብምኽታል፡ ካብ ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም በረኸት ንምርካብ ዓመት መጸ ብሰላም ብፍቕሪ ክጾምዎ ይርከቡ ኣለዉ። “ሞት ብጥሪ፡ ብነሓሴ ቀብሪ” ከምዝተባህለ ኸኣ ተቐቢራ ኣብ ሣልስታ ማለት ሓዋርያት ሱባኤ ካብ ዝጀመሩሉ ኣብ መበል ፲፮ መዓልቲ ማለት ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ዝፈለሰትሉ (ዝዓረገትሉ ) ዕለት ፲፮ ነሓሰ ቤተክርስትያን ዓመት መጸ ብኽብ ዝበለ ክብሪ ተብዕሎ። እዚ በዓል እዚ ኸኣ ሓደ ካብቶም ፴፫ በዓላተ ማርያም እዩ። 

እንታይ ንግበር 
እዚ ንኣትዎ ዘሎና ጾም ኸኣ ኣቦታትና ብዙኅ በረኸትን ጸጋን ዝረኸቡሉ ከም ምዃኑ ንሕናውን ከምኣቶም ክንረብሓሉ ኮይንና ከምቲ ክንጾሞ ዝግበኣናን ዝተኣዘዝናዮን ኮይንና ክንጾሞ ኣሎና። ንድኅሪት ዝጐተናን ዘትረፈናን ከምኡውን ዘሰናኽለና ሥጋዊ ሓሳባትና ንድኅሪት ገዲፍና ምሉእ ሓሳባትና ናብቲ ወሃቢ ኵሉ ጸጋ ዝኾነ እግዚአብሔር ኣእምሮና ክንእክብ፡ ብጸሎትን ሰናይ ተግባራትን ትሩፋትን ክንጽመድ ኣሎና። 

ብንስሓ ነፍስና ሓጺብና፡ ካብ ክፉእ ዘበለ ማለት ካብ ቂምታ ባእስን ክርክርን ክፋእ ወዘይመስሎ ኵሉ ርሒቕና፡ እግዚአብሔር ዝሠመሮ ሰናይ ምግባረ ትሩፋት እናፈጸምና ብምሉእ ልብና ናብ እግዚአብሔር እንተደኣ ተመሊስናን ለሚንናዮን ኵሉ እቲ ዘድልየና ከምዝህበና እሙን ነገር እዩ። እዚ ጊዜ እዚ ፈቓድ ኣምላኽ ንምሥማር፡ ሥጋዊ ሓሳባትና ነውንዝፈሉ፡ ሰማያዊ ስንቂ እንእክበሉ፡ ንዝዓበየ መንፈሳዊ ጸጋ እንጽዕተሉ እዩ። 

ኵልና ኸኣ ኣብዚ እዋን እዚ ብዝተፈላለየ ሽግራት ንዘለዉ ምእመናን ኣኅዋትን ኣኃትን ብጸሎት ክንዝክሮም ይግባእ። እግዚአብሔር ካብ በብዘለዉዎ ሽግርን መከራን ከናግፎምን መስተርኆት ክፍጠረሎምን ናብ እግዚአብሔር ብፍቕሪ ኮይንና ክንልምን ይግባእ። ስለ ነፍስና ጥራይ ዘይኮነስ ስለቶም ኣብ ሽግርን ጸገምን ዘለዎ ምልማን ሓደ ካብቲ መግለጺ ፍቕሪ እግዚአብሔር እዩ። ምኽንያቱ ፍቕረ ቢጽ ዘይብልና ፍቕረ እግዚአብሔር ኣሎና ክንብል ዝከኣል ስለዘይኮነ። ስለዚ ብፍላይ ከኣ ብሰንኪ ስደት ንዝመጽእ ሕማምን መከራን ኣቦታትናን ኣዴትናን፡ ኣኅዋትናን ኣኃትናን ናይ ነፍስ ወከፍና መከራ ምዃኑ ፈሊጥናን፤ ኣብ ውሽጥና ካብ ልብና ተሰሚዑና ክንልምን ይግባእ። እቲ ቅዱስ ቃል’ውን ከምዚ ይብል። “ነቲ ዝረኣዮ ሓዉ ዘየፍቅሮስ፡ ነቲ ዘይረኣዮ ኣምላኽ ኬፍቅሮ ኣይከኣሎን እዩ እሞ፡ ንሓዉ እናጸልኦስ፡ ንኣምላኽ ኤፍቅሮ እየ፡ ዚብል እንተሎ፡ ንሱ ሓሳዊ እዩ።” (ቀዳማይ ዮሓ ፬፥፳) 

ስለ ኣብ ቡዙኅ ማዕበላዊ ፈተና ትናወጽን፡ ትገማጠልን ዘላ ኣማናዊት ሐመርና ቅድስት ቤተ ክርስቲያንን መራሕታን ኸኣ ጸሎት ምቕራብ ካብ ዝግባእሉ እዋን ኸኣ እቲ ዝበለጸ እዚ ጾም ፍልሰታ እዚ እዩ። መርከብና እናተሰብረትን ማይ እናኣተዋን ኣብ ውሽጣ ከሎና ከምዘይምልከተና ኮይንና ንርከብ እንተደኣ ኣሎና፡ ኣብ ፍጹም ዕሽነት ወዲቕና ከምዘሎና ክንስሕቶ ዘይብልና ሓቂ እዩ። መን ኣሎ መርከቡ ኣብ ማእከል ባሕሪ ነፋሳት እናገማጠላ ማዕበላ እናነወጻ ‘ንዓይ ኣይምልከተንን’ ኢሉ ትም ዝብል? መን ኣሎ ‘ጠፋእና’ ኢሉ ናብ ኣምላኹ ዘይልምን? ስለዚ ብሓቂ ቅድሚ ኵልና ሓመርና ንፍለጣ፤ ስለ ሓመርና ኸኣ ንጸልይን ንትጋህን። 

ብዙኅ ክንጽልዮ ዝግባእና ነገር’ውን ከምዘሎ ኣብ ልቢ ነፍስ ወከፍና ዘሎ ነገር ኸኣ እዩ። እግዚአብሔር ከኣ ክሰምዓና ከምቲ ንሱ ዝፈትዎ ኮይንና ክንርከብ ኵልና ብመንፈሳዊ ገድሊ ንጽናዕ። ፍጹም እንእመና እንተደኣ ኮይንና ከኣ ኣዴና ወትሩ ብቃል ኪዳና ምሳና እያ። ደቃ ስለዝኾንና ኸኣ ኣይትገድፈናን እያ። ናብ ፍቁር ወዳ ትልምነልና ኸኣ እያ። ኣብቲ ሓቀኛ መንገድን ሕይወትን ጸኒዕናን እንተደኣ ተመላሊስናን ኸኣ ጸሎታን አስተበቍዖታን ኣብ ቅድሚ አምላኽ ወትሩ ተሰማዒ እዩ እሞ ስለቲ ዝግበረልና ነገር ደስ ክብለና እዩ። 

በሉ ከም ፈቓዱ ኵልና ብልቢ ከምቲ እግዚአብሔር ዝፈትዎ ገይርና ንጹም። ጾምና ኣብ ቅድሚኡ ውኩፍ ይግበረልና። 

በረኸትን ረድኤትን ኣዴና ቅድስት ድንግል ማርያም ምስ ሃገናን ሕዝብናን ይኹን። 

                                                ስብሐት ለእግዚአብሔር ወለወላዲቱ ድንግል ወለመስቀሉ ክቡር።

ቅዱስ ገብሪኤል 19 ሓምለ

በስመኣብ ወወልድ ወመንፈስ ቅዱስ ኣሃዱ ኣምላክ ኣሜን!
፲፱/19 ሓምለ በዓለ ሊቀ መላእኽት ቅዱስ ቅዱስ ገብርኤል
እዚ ዕለት እዚ ሊቀ መላእኽት ቅዱስ ገብርኤል መልኣኽ ንቅዱስ ቂርቆስን ንቅድስት ኢየሉጣን ካብ ፍሉሕ ማይ ዘድሓነሎም ዕለት እዩ።
ቅዱስ ቂርቆስ ሃገሩ ሮም እዩ። ኣቦኡ ቆዝሞስ ኣዲኡ ከኣ ቅድስት ኢየሉጣ ይበሃሉ። ቅድስት ኢየሉጣ ሓረገ ትውልዳ ካብ ነግስታት እዩ።
ድዮቅልጢያኖስ ምስ ነገሰ ኣብ 20 ዓመቱ “ኣብያተ ክርስቲያናት ይተዓጸዋ ኣብያተ ጣኦታት ይከፈታ” ዝብል ሰይጣናዊ ኣዋጅ ኣወጀ። ብዚ መሰረት ብዙሓት ክርስቲያን ዓዶም ገዲፎም ካብ ሃገር ናብ ሃገር ተሰዱ። ቅድስት ኢየሉጣ ድማ ወዲ 3 ዓመት ወዳ ሒዛ ካብ ሃገራ ናብ ኢቆንዮን ሃደመት። እንተኾነ ግና መስፍን ናይታ ኣሃገር ዝነበረ እለእስክንድሮስ ዝተባህለ ውን ንክርስቶስ ክሓዱ ንጣኦት ስገዱ በሎም። ቅድስት ኤየሉጣ ድማ “ነዞም ኣፍ ከለዎም ዘይዛረቡ፡ እዝኒ ከለዎም ዘይሰምዑ፡ ኢድ ከለዎም ዘይድህሱ፡ ዓይኒ ከለዎም ዘይርእዩ፡ ስርሓት የእዳውካ ንዝኾኑ ጣኦታት ኣይሰግድን እየ” በለቶ። ንሱ ከኣ “ንጣኦታተይ እንተዘይሰጊድኪ ብሰይፊ ክስይፈኪ እየ” በላ። ንሳ ድማ ፈሪሃ ነዚ ሕጻን በል ሕተቶ በለት። ንሱ ድማ ንወዲ 3 ዓመት ህጸን ቂርቆስ “ ብዙሕ ወርቂ ክህበካ እየ ጣኦት ስገደ” በሎ። ህጻን ቂርቆስ ድማ “ንእምነተይ ብወርቅን ብሩርን ኣይሸይጥን እየ፡ ነዞም ንገዛእ ርእሶም እኳ ከድሕኑ ዘይክእሉ ርጉማት ጣኦታትካ ከኣ ኣይሰግድን እየ” በሎ። ዲዮቅልጢያኖስ በዚ ተቖጢዑ “ኣብ ናይ ሓጺን ዕትሮ ኣብ ፍሉሕ ማይ ጠጥቕዎም ኢሉ” ቄናን ፍርዲ ፈረደ። እቶም ወታሃደራቱ ድማ ከምቲ ዝተኣዘዝዎ ገበሩ። ጌና ርሑቕ ከላኻ ከም ነጎድጓድ ክሳብ ዝስማዕ ድማ ማይ ኣፍልሑ። ናብቲ ፍሉሕ ማይ ከእትውዎም እናወሰድዎም ከለዉ ከኣ ኢየሉጣ ፍርሒ ተሰምዓ። ህጻን ቄርቆስ ግን መሊሱ ጸንዐ፡ እግዚኣብሔር ንኣዲኡ ፍርሓት ካብኣ ኣርሒቑ ጽንዓት ክህባ ከኣ ጸሎት ገበረ። “ንሃናንያ ኣዛርያ ሚሳኤል ካብ እቶን ሓዊ ዘጽኦም እግዚኣብሔር ንዓና ውን ከውጽኣና እዩ ኣደየ ኣጆኪ” እናበለ ከኣ ኣጸናንዓ። በዚ ንሳ ውን ኣዝያ ጸንዐት። ኣብ እምነቶም ጸኒዖም ዝረኣዩ ወታሃደራት ዲዮቅልጢያኖስ ድማ ናብቲ ፍሉሕ ማይ ኣእተውዎም። እግዚኣብሔር ድማ ብስሙ መስኪሮም መከራ ዝጸግቡ ክጠፍኡ ስቕ ኢሉ ስለ ዘይርኢ ንሊቀ መላእክት ቅዱስ ገብርኤል ለኣኸሎም። ቅዱስ ገብርኤል መልኣኽ ነቲ ፍሉሕ ማይ ብበትሪ መስቀሉ ገይሩ ተንከፎሞ ናብ ዝሑል ማይ ተቐየረ። ካብቲ መከራን ስቓይን ድማ ኣናገፎም። ኣብ ፍሉህ ማይ ኣትዮም ገለ ነገር ከይኮኑ ብሰላም ውጹ ነዚ ዝረኣዩ ብዙሓት ድማ ብኣምላኽ ቂርቆስን ኢየሉጣን ኣመኑ። እዚ ዕለት እዚ ብኽብሪ ዝበዓል እንበኣር ሊቀ መላእክት ቅዱስ ገብርኤል ንቅዱስ ቂርቆስን ንቅድስት ኢየሉጣን ካብ ፍሉሕ ማይ ስለ ዘድሓኖም እዩ።
ክቡራት ናይ እግዚኣብሔር ቤተሰብ ንሕና ሎሚ ከመይ ኣሎና ኣብ እምነትና ከም ህጻን ቂርቆስን ኣዲኡ ኢየሉጣንዶ ጽኑዓት ኣለና፧
እግዚኣብሔር መልኣኹ ልኢኹ ካብ ክሉ ሽግርና ምእንቲ ከድሕነና ኩሉ ግዜ ኣብ እምነትና ጽንዓት ንኹን። እግዚኣብሔር ኣብ እምነትና የጽንዓና ኣሜን!!!
በረኸትን ረድኤትን ናይ ቅዱስ ገብርኤል መልኣኽ ምስ ኩላትና ህዝበ ክርስቲያን ይኹን ኣሜን!!!
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